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Yesterday at 8:17 am
If your husband got a bonus before Yom tov, what's his position and how much was it for?
I am a manger of a small team, work hard, and got a $400 bonus. My husband has a similar position and got a $1000 bonus.
Why the huge difference (over 50%)?
Is this a cultural thing, a sexist thing?
Disclaimer: it's not about the money! We only have a joint account so it's not like 'my money your money' type of thing. I'm just curious and think it's interesting.
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amother
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Yesterday at 8:20 am
I could be wrong because my husband and I are both teachers and dont really bonuses... But I think it's company dependent.
My husband got $100 from his boss for yom tov and I got nothing... But I get paid more than him, work for a bigger yeshiva...
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Oxfordblue
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Yesterday at 8:21 am
Neither of us got a bonus. Both management positions.
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amother
Hyacinth
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Yesterday at 8:21 am
Never heard of a YT bonus. Wow. I guess that’s a perk of working for a Jewish company? Yasher koach
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amother
Sunflower
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Yesterday at 8:41 am
My husband got nothing.
I’m sahm and I got an unlimited credit card.
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amother
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Yesterday at 8:51 am
my dh got a bonus. NON JEWISH company. nothing to do with y"t, not sure why he got in y"t time. dont remember him ever getting a bonus before in all our years of marriage. hes in tech.
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amother
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Yesterday at 8:52 am
Each business gives differently. How can you compare unless you work in the same place? Many didn’t get any bonus be grateful you both did.
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amother
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Yesterday at 8:53 am
amother Mintcream wrote: | my dh got a bonus. NON JEWISH company. nothing to do with y"t, not sure why he got in y"t time. dont remember him ever getting a bonus before in all our years of marriage. hes in tech. |
Non Jewish tech places usually give a bonus new years time.
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amother
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Yesterday at 8:54 am
amother Sunflower wrote: | My husband got nothing.
I’m sahm and I got an unlimited credit card. |
Is it really unlimited? So you can swipe millions if you want?
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amother
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Yesterday at 8:57 am
amother Blonde wrote: | Non Jewish tech places usually give a bonus new years time. |
correct. that's why I thought it was so strange that he got one now
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amother
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Yesterday at 9:02 am
amother Mintcream wrote: | correct. that's why I thought it was so strange that he got one now |
Sometimes it’s for a specific project each person on it gets a bonus if it was extra successful. He can usually find out.
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amother
Seafoam
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Yesterday at 9:06 am
Jewish place.
No bonus for Yom Tov.
Usually $360 bonus around New Years.
That's it.
Some places give better bonuses than others
On the other hand, we got the insurance sign up information for next year, and they pay a very significant amount (90%) of spouse and family premiums.
So I guess that's really our bonus. To the tune of a couple of thousand dollars a year.
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amother
Oldlace
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Yesterday at 9:15 am
My husband got nothing and I got a chocolate platter.
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amother
Amaranthus
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Yesterday at 9:15 am
By my school the Rebbeim definitely get more than the Morahs. It’s a small bonus normally something like $100 for us or $250 for the men
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amother
NeonOrange
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Yesterday at 9:18 am
I used to work for a Jewish company. They always gave bonuses yom tov time. Sometimes 500. Sometimes 1000. The last company I worked for gave us a honey cake for Rosh hashana and a cheesecake for Shavuos.
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Catmint
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Yesterday at 9:44 am
I work as a teacher, I got a cake! (The Rebbeim get $400) My husband works in the office of a Yeshiva, he got $2500. BH!
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amother
Emerald
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Yesterday at 9:57 am
My husband in kollel got a $1500 bonus.
I work in the local school and got 5 honey straws before rosh hashana
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justforfun87
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Yesterday at 9:59 am
Yes it is sexist. Why do Rabbeim get huge tips from parents and not Morahs.
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amother
Raspberry
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Yesterday at 10:04 am
- do you work for the same company? One company bay gave done much better than the other?
- do you work the same hours or get paid the same amount? Is one part time or one full time?
Our company it’s a percentage of salary but also dependent on fill time vs part time. Part time workers get smaller percentage of their salary.
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giftedmom
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Yesterday at 10:06 am
It’s assumed that men are the main breadwinners
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