If your husband got a bonus

amother

Silver

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 1:46 pm

I would think it is company based. I work for a small place and have gotten anywhere between $0-$1500 depending on how the company was doing at the time. Also if your husband is earning more or working more hours that would probably also contribute.

amother

Candycane

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 1:47 pm

I got a $1500 bonus. We don't usually get such large bonuses before yom tov, but the past few months have been extremely busy and I've been working extremely hard. It's feels really good to have my hard work noticed and appreciated.

I don't know if any of my coworkers, male or female, got similar bonuses.

amother

Chestnut

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 2:07 pm

I got a honey dish before rosh hashanah. And it's busy season and I've been putting in crazy amounts of overtime.
Wanna trade?

amother

RosePink ↓

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 2:13 pm

Wish I got a bonus. Or a gift. Or anything.
I get a paycheck and that is it. Oh and unpaid time for YT off.

jd1212

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 2:50 pm

amother Seafoam wrote:

Jewish place.
No bonus for Yom Tov.
Usually $360 bonus around New Years.
That's it.

Some places give better bonuses than others
On the other hand, we got the insurance sign up information for next year, and they pay a very significant amount (90%) of spouse and family premiums.
So I guess that's really our bonus. To the tune of a couple of thousand dollars a year.

A family health insurance policy is $2,500-$3,500/MONTH!

amother

Camellia

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 3:01 pm

My husband works in a Jewish finance-related business and got 1500.

amother

Cyan

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 3:01 pm

justforfun87 wrote:

Yes it is sexist. Why do Rabbeim get huge tips from parents and not Morahs.

Relax.

In the communities that do this the rebbeim literally work double the amount of hours as the morahs. They deserve more.

amother

Trillium

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 3:13 pm

My spouse got a mural he is in management
I work retail with very hard hours before yt ( think nights until 1130/12) and got a 1500$ bonus plus pay for yt!

amother

↑ Blue

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 3:27 pm

amother Cyan wrote:

Relax.

In the communities that do this the rebbeim literally work double the amount of hours as the morahs. They deserve more.

This, in our school the rebbeim are there from 8:45-2, teachers from 2-4 but not on Fridays or Sundays.

amother

↑ Peach

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 3:32 pm

amother RosePink wrote:

Wish I got a bonus. Or a gift. Or anything.
I get a paycheck and that is it. Oh and unpaid time for YT off.

BH! I don't blame you ..

But One of my jobs (teaching) didn't even give us our Sept paychecks yet! (Should've gotten 10/1 and 10/15)..... BH for savings...

amother

Mayflower

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 3:51 pm

amother Mintcream wrote:

my dh got a bonus. NON JEWISH company. nothing to do with y"t, not sure why he got in y"t time. dont remember him ever getting a bonus before in all our years of marriage. hes in tech.

October 15th is the last day of the ficial year. That's why it was now.

amother

↑ RosePink ↓

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 3:56 pm

amother Peach wrote:

BH! I don't blame you ..

But One of my jobs (teaching) didn't even give us our Sept paychecks yet! (Should've gotten 10/1 and 10/15)..... BH for savings...

Yeah, I rarely ever get a bonus. Once we got something but we had to pay taxes on it.
Even a cake, flowers, a honey dish for RH... would be nice.

Not a teacher but working in a frum mental health agency.

So sorry you haven't been paid. That is unacceptable especially as it was over YK! Didn't they chap Al Cheit?! What a huge aveira to not pay on time.

amother

Floralwhite

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 4:02 pm

jd1212 wrote:

A family health insurance policy is $2,500-$3,500/MONTH!

I was going to say thats a few thousand a month, not a year. I'd take a job just to get 90% of benefits paid. I wouldn't even need a paycheck

amother

NeonPurple ↓

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 4:21 pm

amother Blue wrote:

This, in our school the rebbeim are there from 8:45-2, teachers from 2-4 but not on Fridays or Sundays.

Morahs in girls schools or with little kids work way longer than 2-4.

amother

Salmon ↓

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 4:42 pm

justforfun87 wrote:

Yes it is sexist. Why do Rabbeim get huge tips from parents and not Morahs.

Rebbeim with the boys way more than the morahs are with the girls. Not sexist at all.

amother

↑ NeonPurple

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 5:01 pm

amother Salmon wrote:

Rebbeim with the boys way more than the morahs are with the girls. Not sexist at all.

Not way more.

amother

Grape

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 5:02 pm

amother Mayflower wrote:

October 15th is the last day of the ficial year. That's why it was now.

No, October 15 is the last day for filing individual taxes. End of the years December 31.

amother

↑ Salmon ↓

Wed, Oct 16 2024, 5:13 pm

amother NeonPurple wrote:

Not way more.

Yes way more. My dd teachers 9-12 or 12-4. And every other Friday. Ds rebbe is 9-2 or 9-3 including sunday. Every Friday 9-12. And the boys barely have off while the girls always do.