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amother
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 Mon, Jul 19 2010, 7:29 am
Hi. When not niddah on Tisha B'av, do harchokos have to kept?
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tryinghard
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Mon, Jul 19 2010, 7:33 am
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I just asked dh about this. he said for sure beds must be separated, no hugging or kissing, and that machmirim will not touch either. of course, we are going to be machmirim... sigh...
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Isramom8
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Mon, Jul 19 2010, 7:36 am
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Yes, they do. My dh (who is a rabbi) just said "especially the main ones".
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seeker
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Mon, Jul 19 2010, 8:20 am
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I haven't asked about 9 Av specifically, but in general what I was always told when we were not allowed to be together but not nidda either was basically what tryinghard said - certainly no hugging/kissing, preferably no touching or at least limited, but no need for harchakos such as not passing things, etc. That's what I was told during shiva so I assume 9 Av is in the same kind of category.
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sky
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Mon, Jul 19 2010, 8:31 am
| tryinghard wrote: | | I just asked dh about this. he said for sure beds must be separated, no hugging or kissing, and that machmirim will not touch either. of course, we are going to be machmirim... sigh... |
In terms of handing stuff to each other and touching we are careful until chatzos. But everything else the entire day.
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losingweight
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Mon, Jul 19 2010, 9:30 am
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All harchakos till chatzos. After that, only giving over.
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Zus
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Mon, Jul 19 2010, 10:21 am
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We keep harchakot the whole way through.
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Tova
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Mon, Jul 19 2010, 10:26 am
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We hold to only keep d'oraisa's - sleep in same bed, chibuk/nishuk.
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Tehilla
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Mon, Jul 19 2010, 10:29 am
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We were taught to keep full harchakas on Tisha B'Av and Yom Kippur the entire time.
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