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Newborn DS and his paci
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amother
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Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 3:20 pm
I can't bear the thought of DS not taking a paci - my babies aren't easy, and the one who didn't take a paci was the hardest Crying
He's 10 days old. Not loving his cherry teat Tommee Tippee. At what point do I try another type? At what point do I assume he's not taking one at all?!
Any tips in general???
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happy7




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 3:31 pm
try a few more kinds before giving up
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mushkamothers




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 3:44 pm
All my kids loved the advent soothie
Although I switched to ninni now
Interestingly one kid never took a pacifier or a bottle (but breastfed just fine) and has a tongue tie
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papaya613




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 3:52 pm
my DS loved the NUK comfy
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amother
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Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 4:05 pm
Buy a whole bunch and try them all. Another trick as he begins sucking gently tug it a little to make his muscles suck harder this is how u train to take a paci rather than push it in and force etc
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Brit in Israel




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 4:31 pm
Try straight away.
Gave my babies always the MAMs and one didn't take it, straight away tried different ones and ended up she took the one from the hospital.
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peace2




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 4:38 pm
Mams brand worked best for me. Much easier to keep in their mouth than the soothie
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amother
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Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 4:40 pm
So the consensus is don't wait, just try other kinds asap... How do I know which one will be 'it', something he starts sucking on quickly? Takes happily?
Aaargh, I am so overwhelmed right now and now another thing.
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peace2




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 4:52 pm
amother OP wrote:
So the consensus is don't wait, just try other kinds asap... How do I know which one will be 'it', something he starts sucking on quickly? Takes happily?
Aaargh, I am so overwhelmed right now and now another thing.

It can take some effort to get a baby to take a pacifier. I found holding it in their mouth and rocking works… even if they’re crying at first keep holding it in and they usually eventually latch on
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amother
Ebony


 

Post Sun, Jun 30 2024, 6:29 pm
Check for tongue tie. Not able to take a pacifier is a symptom.
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amother
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Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 10:48 am
No tongue tie bh - he's very able, just not willing...
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amother
NeonBlue


 

Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 10:49 am
amother OP wrote:
No tongue tie bh - he's very able, just not willing...


respect him and dont push it.
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amother
Arcticblue


 

Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 11:03 am
amother NeonBlue wrote:
respect him and dont push it.


This. Paci culture is out of control.
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amother
NeonBlue


 

Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 11:25 am
amother Arcticblue wrote:
This. Paci culture is out of control.


ill add, that my first didnt like it. I tried a few diff kinds but never forced her and she didnt take it.
my baby (6 mo) now takes it and it helps soothe her. but when she spits it out I dont force it back into her mouth. Anyway paci use isnt great, in a way its good your baby isnt taking it. Sometimes I get nervous my baby takes it since I know pacifiers aren't popular amongst most SLPs (I am a SLP), for a variety of reasons, mostly to do with orofacial development.
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amother
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Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 11:28 am
amother Arcticblue wrote:
This. Paci culture is out of control.


Please, you can train a baby to take a paci. And nothing wrong with it. Much better than sucking their fingers. Helps them learn to self sooth.
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amother
Yolk


 

Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 11:38 am
Keep offering it, at some point they take it as a toy, until they learn to enjoy it and get attached to it😀
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amother
Arcticblue


 

Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 12:05 pm
amother Gold wrote:
Please, you can train a baby to take a paci. And nothing wrong with it. Much better than sucking their fingers. Helps them learn to self sooth.


It’s not one or the others. My babies never sucked their fingers and never took paci
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amother
DarkKhaki


 

Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 12:48 pm
Mam is the way to go..give it more time
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amother
Orchid


 

Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 1:18 pm
Some baby's have a need to suck.those will automatically be pacifier or finger sucking baby's. Not every baby has a need to suck.all humans don't self sooth in the same way.
Thus baby just may not be interested in having their mouth plugged.
-sign -a mom of big "suckers"
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amother
Ebony


 

Post Mon, Jul 01 2024, 1:20 pm
amother Gold wrote:
Please, you can train a baby to take a paci. And nothing wrong with it. Much better than sucking their fingers. Helps them learn to self sooth.
A paci isn't "self". Fingers are actually self soothing. Breast to soothe is ideal.
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