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amother
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 12:12 am
Ideas for bday gift for my husband? All men’s gift guides have alcohol, sports, travel, or clothes/accessories. He doesn’t like any of that.
Any unique gift ideas that arent the above? He’s very nerdy vibes. Likes games..
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 12:38 am
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Yolk
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Oldlace
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To life
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 6:05 am
One of those fancy backgammon sets
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amother
Daylily
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 6:38 am
My nerdy dh asked for a headlamp one year
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amother
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 6:47 am
Best gift would be not to call him needy rather “unique” or quirky or brilliant or exceptional and extraordinary
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amother
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 7:03 am
amother Cinnamon wrote: | Best gift would be not to call him needy rather “unique” or quirky or brilliant or exceptional and extraordinary |
In the secular world, nerdy just means that’s he’s a little more geeky. It describes his interests.
In the frum world, we’ve co-opted the word to mean nebby, but that’s not its actual meaning. I do not believe OP was being derogatory towards her husband
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sushilover
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 7:21 am
amother Garnet wrote: | In the secular world, nerdy just means that’s he’s a little more geeky. It describes his interests.
In the frum world, we’ve co-opted the word to mean nebby, but that’s not its actual meaning. I do not believe OP was being derogatory towards her husband |
Sorry to be pedantic, but we didn't co-opt the word. It used to be a derogatory word in the secular world too. It only started meaning someone smart, geeky, and unique more recently. The frum world just retained the original meaning- we didn't co-opt it.
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sushilover
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 7:22 am
There are some really cool watches that nerds love. What is your price range?
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amother
Begonia
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 7:43 am
amother Cinnamon wrote: | Best gift would be not to call him needy rather “unique” or quirky or brilliant or exceptional and extraordinary |
Her term seved it purpose. Nobody thought she was looking for an out of style tie (derogotory angle). Everyone undeestood op wanted some interesting intellectual non fashion item.
Unique , quirky, even brilliant would not hsve conveyed thst.
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amother
Aconite
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 7:50 am
My city has a board game cafe where you pay to sit and play board games. All around you are other people at tables playing games. Definitely a nerd/hipster vibe and lots of fun!
Pinball parlor? Retro arcade?
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Iymnok
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 7:52 am
Classic nerd?
Pocket protector!
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amother
Cerise
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Fri, Jun 21 2024, 10:37 am
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