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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 1:04 pm
OP, do any gerim convert Satmar? I have always wondered this.
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 1:06 pm
amother Daisy wrote: | Yeah, would love to hear about that controversy. |
What controversy are you referring to?
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 1:09 pm
Not OP but I’ve read articles of a few converts who became Satmar.
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 1:38 pm
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 6:18 pm
I personally know 2 geirim (unrelated) that converted and joined the satmar community but it is highly unusual
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 7:16 pm
amother OP wrote: | I personally know 2 geirim (unrelated) that converted and joined the satmar community but it is highly unusual |
And I know one lady who married viznitz. She sends her boys and girls to viznitz. I believe she's on here too.
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#BestBubby
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 8:43 pm
OP, you sound like a great person.
Q: are you and your DH on the same page in frumkeit/samar minhagim? Like hair shaving
Are you and your inlaws on the same page in frumkeit/ samar minhagim?
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 9:02 pm
What time do you start shabbos? Is it later Shkia then litfish?
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 9:07 pm
amother OP wrote: | I personally know 2 geirim (unrelated) that converted and joined the satmar community but it is highly unusual |
The non Jewish grandma of a giyores girl attended a graduation this week in Monroe school. Wonderful people.
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 10:32 pm
amother Narcissus wrote: | What time do you start shabbos? Is it later Shkia then litfish? |
Satmer too
Shkia is the same for everyone, it’s when the sun sets- no controversy in that
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amother
Milk
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 10:40 pm
amother Lemonchiffon wrote: | Satmer too
Shkia is the same for everyone, it’s when the sun sets- no controversy in that |
She means rabbeiny tam when shabbos ends.
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amother
OP
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 10:49 pm
#BestBubby wrote: | OP, you sound like a great person.
Q: are you and your DH on the same page in frumkeit/samar minhagim? Like hair shaving
Are you and your inlaws on the same page in frumkeit/ samar minhagim? |
Aww thanks
My husband and I are pretty much on the same page, my in laws and I not really. I am from Brooklyn they're from Monroe and I think that's where the differences start.
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amother
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Wed, Jun 26 2024, 10:51 pm
amother Narcissus wrote: | What time do you start shabbos? Is it later Shkia then litfish? |
We start shabbos the same time, my husband will do malachos until 30 minutes after I light. Motzai Shabbos is 72 minutes rabbeinu tam
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amother
OP
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Thu, Jun 27 2024, 10:25 am
amother OP wrote: | Aww thanks
My husband and I are pretty much on the same page, my in laws and I not really. I am from Brooklyn they're from Monroe and I think that's where the differences start. |
To expound on this, my husband and I will ask our rav/dayan any questions we might have about minhagim or other community customs, like when to start wearing tights and long sleeves, or my son wanted tshirt tzitzis and our minhag is not to wear the tzitzis directly on the skin, etc. My in-laws will rather do what 'everyone' does. So white tights on shabbos/simchas for little girls when they're in KJ but black tights when they're in BP or Monsey. When my 3 yr old DD wore socks they had a hard time with it but 2 years later were OK with it because 'people' were doing it.
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amother
Lemonchiffon
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Thu, Jun 27 2024, 9:01 pm
amother OP wrote: | We start shabbos the same time, my husband will do malachos until 30 minutes after I light. Motzai Shabbos is 72 minutes rabbeinu tam |
Interesting, never heard of that, is that 30 minutes after the zman, shkia or do you light earlier?
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amother
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Thu, Jun 27 2024, 9:02 pm
amother Milk wrote: | Not OP but I’ve read articles of a few converts who became Satmar. She ordered the Tesla she did | ?? 🚗
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amother
Milk
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Thu, Jun 27 2024, 9:04 pm
I deleted that sentence. I didn’t even realize that got typed as I didn’t voice type.
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amother
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Thu, Jun 27 2024, 9:13 pm
amother Lemonchiffon wrote: | Interesting, never heard of that, is that 30 minutes after the zman, shkia or do you light earlier? |
30 minutes after the zman
My father does 18 minutes but DH's family does 30
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amother
Milk
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Thu, Jun 27 2024, 9:16 pm
amother OP wrote: | 30 minutes after the zman
My father does 18 minutes but DH's family does 30 |
So interesting. So shabbos is 8:18 you light 8:00 so your DH will do melacha untill 8:48?
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amother
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Thu, Jun 27 2024, 9:45 pm
amother Milk wrote: | So interesting. So shabbos is 8:18 you light 8:00 so your DH will do melacha untill 8:48? |
If shabbos is 8:18 I'll light then and he will do melachos until 8:48
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