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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 12:22 am
My nephew from my side recently got married and my mother hosted a sheva brachos which I helped her arrange. She got hold of a poem with a shoe theme of how 2 shoes are necessary to be able to walk, and needs to be one right one left and a few other points which symbolized a relationship with 2 ppl. It was placed at every setting on the women’s side alongside a small clear shoe filled with candies.
Somehow dh sisters found out and one sis asked me if I can do the same for her child’s upcoming sheva brachos. I told her I would. My question is this- 4 weeks later another nephew on dh side is getting married… because the 2 weddings are so close apart, I feel the need to do something for that sheva brachos as well. First sil said I could do the same as the other side is different ppl. However, I do feel a little dumb and my mother too is saying it’s a little stupid. I was thinking of doing hot cocoa bombs for the next one and writing “what a ‘bomb’ of a shidduch”!
Would you do the shoe with the poem or the bomb?
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 12:24 am
Love the bomb idea!! I would just write "bomb shidduch"
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familyfirst
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 12:59 am
What a pair!
And so so tho f that comes in pairs
Salt and pepper, cute socks, earrings… whatever
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amother
Bluebonnet
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:00 am
I wouldn’t do the same for both events personally, even if half the people will be different
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:01 am
I saw somewhere mints in a bottle and a few words about “mint” to be together….
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:40 am
I wouldn’t do the same a month later. I have seen mints with “mint to be”, also little pear candies with the perfect “pear”,
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amother
Black
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:43 am
You sound like an awesome SIL.
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amother
Eggshell
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:45 am
Match boxes- the perfect match
Recently did very cute corkscrews that look like wine bottles with a sticker. Mazel tov to the couple
Shot glasses
There are many many things to do
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:46 am
familyfirst wrote: | What a pair!
And so so tho f that comes in pairs
Salt and pepper, cute socks, earrings… whatever |
I hear that, they’re cute ideas, though the poem is based on how one can’t be without the other… also the crowd it’s for socks wouldn’t do, and I don’t want to spend that much on earrings
I appreciate it though!
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:47 am
amother Amaryllis wrote: | I saw somewhere mints in a bottle and a few words about “mint” to be together…. |
Thanks for the idea, so cute
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:47 am
When I hear bomb, I think terrible.
Like "that date was a bomb"
Not a positive like "that was a bomb kasha"
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:48 am
amother Peru wrote: | I wouldn’t do the same a month later. I have seen mints with “mint to be”, also little pear candies with the perfect “pear”, |
Right thanks… also really cute… it’s the poem that made the main impression….thats why they said to do the shoes twice
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:48 am
Thanks, that’s so kind of you!
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:49 am
amother Eggshell wrote: | Match boxes- the perfect match
Recently did very cute corkscrews that look like wine bottles with a sticker. Mazel tov to the couple
Shot glasses
There are many many things to do |
Thanks
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:51 am
amother Diamond wrote: | When I hear bomb, I think terrible.
Like "that date was a bomb"
Not a positive like "that was a bomb kasha" |
Never heard that expression, I guess because we don’t do the dating system.
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 1:52 am
amother Peru wrote: | I wouldn’t do the same a month later. I have seen mints with “mint to be”, also little pear candies with the perfect “pear”, |
Thanks, really cute ideas!!
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 10:19 am
I’ve never heard of a favor at a sheva brachos. So my advise is skip it
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ddmom
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 10:22 am
Can you please pm me? I'm making Sheva brachos this week and would love to see this poem.
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 2:43 pm
amother OP wrote: | My nephew from my side recently got married and my mother hosted a sheva brachos which I helped her arrange. She got hold of a poem with a shoe theme of how 2 shoes are necessary to be able to walk, and needs to be one right one left and a few other points which symbolized a relationship with 2 ppl. It was placed at every setting on the women’s side alongside a small clear shoe filled with candies.
Somehow dh sisters found out and one sis asked me if I can do the same for her child’s upcoming sheva brachos. I told her I would. My question is this- 4 weeks later another nephew on dh side is getting married… because the 2 weddings are so close apart, I feel the need to do something for that sheva brachos as well. First sil said I could do the same as the other side is different ppl. However, I do feel a little dumb and my mother too is saying it’s a little stupid. I was thinking of doing hot cocoa bombs for the next one and writing “what a ‘bomb’ of a shidduch”!
Would you do the shoe with the poem or the bomb? |
A perfect pair, now joined as one,
A journey of love has just begun.
Thank you for joining our joyous affair,
As Chaim & Chani step into life as the perfect "pear"!
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amother
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Sun, Jan 05 2025, 2:45 pm
Two hearts, one love, a bond that's true,
A perfect match, they always knew.
Together they shine, as bright as can be,
This couple was truly "mint" to be.
A fresh new start, a love so sweet,
With every step, their joy's complete.
Thank you for sharing this day with glee,
To celebrate a love that's "mint" to be!
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A perfect pair, like two as one,
Their journey of love has just begun.
Bound by joy, with hearts so rare,
Truly they are a perfect "pear."
Sweetness and love in every stride,
Together they'll flourish, side by side.
Thank you for sharing their special affair,
Celebrating love—a perfect "pear."
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