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amother

Magnolia

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 2:45 pm

Bnei Berak 10 wrote:

OP, when we learned that the krovim in kodesh kodashim were embraced... The truth is they were united in the extreme position possible. Yes. Correct.
You need a better kallah teacher. Your way if calling kissing gross and your whole attitude to private life of a married couple isn't Yiddishkeit.

Any source for that? I've never heard that

amother

Violet ↓

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 2:54 pm

amother Dahlia wrote:

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Why? Also just curious what type you are? You seem very sheltered

Yes, very very sheltered.

amother

↑ Seafoam

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 2:58 pm

Does your husband also wear right over left and single button shirts?

amother

↑ OP ↓

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 3:00 pm

amother Thistle wrote:

Huh? That's weird.
How is it not refined to call each other's by their name?
Who taught you that it's not refined? So twisted.

To loudly say their name
At home we say each other's name all he time even in front of the kids

amother

↑ Violet ↓

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 3:01 pm

amother OP wrote:

To loudly say their name
At home we say each other's name all he time even in front of the kids

I don't yell his name, but of course I call him by his name in public. In a normal tone.

mathbrain

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 3:21 pm

amother OP wrote:

To loudly say their name
At home we say each other's name all he time even in front of the kids

Never heard of this one.
I mean, I usually don’t shout people‘s names across the room. But if I was out in public, and I wanted to get my husband‘s attention, how else would I call him if not his name?

amother

↑ Babypink

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 3:31 pm

amother OP wrote:

Not gross but I feel weird when couples hold hands and get mushy in public
I was taught to never touch or call dhs name in public

I thought this was only something Rebbish chassidish did.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 3:51 pm

000amother Babypink wrote:

I thought this was only something Rebbish chassidish did.

My inlaws family is very into it they are not rebbish
Also not talking to an aunt by her first name but saying tante first. Personally don't see an issue with it....

amother

Papayawhip

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 4:15 pm

amother OP wrote:

It's not refined. At a Chanukah party or at a simcha my husband will say rebbetzin referring to me and if I need to call him I would send someone like my little brother to call him over even if he's just a few feet away

I'm pretty yeshivish. I'm mind blown. Literally never heard of this in my entire life...

amother

Hotpink

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 8:47 pm

amother Papayawhip wrote:

I'm pretty yeshivish. I'm mind blown. Literally never heard of this in my entire life...

Same.

Although I hear calling an aunt "Tante" first . It's derech eretz.

amother

↑ Violet ↓

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:07 pm

amother Papayawhip wrote:

I'm pretty yeshivish. I'm mind blown. Literally never heard of this in my entire life...

OP sounds chassidish

amother

↑ Lightcyan

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:18 pm

amother Violet wrote:

OP sounds chassidish

Not with the tante part

And I've heard there are those who don't call others names in public only totty / mommy when the kids are around. Why? I don't even know

But rebbetzin? Calling a kid to call your husband when you're a few feet a way?
This isn't a thing in the Boro park chassidish circles I'm in.

I will sometimes hear in conversation men say "mein rebbetzin.....etc." Usually as a joke but sometimes not. But to actually address the wife like that....never came across that.

amother

NeonOrange

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:30 pm

It's just old fashioned.

I recently watched the Lincoln movie and there is a scene where Abraham Lincoln and his wife get into a very loud argument. Abe Lincoln loudly addresses her as Mrs. Lincoln!

amother

Midnight

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:33 pm

amother Seafoam wrote:

Does your husband also wear right over left and single button shirts?

Explain?

amother

↑ OP ↓

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:38 pm

amother Lightcyan wrote:

I'm talking about through the mechitza and he's talking to someone so he wouldn't hear me if I just said his name. To say it a little louder would be not ok so I ask a kid to call him...

And vice versa if we're somewhere and there's a lot of people and he's trying to get my attention hell say um rebbetzin..? Or Mrs Schwartz?

amother

↑ OP ↓

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:39 pm

amother Seafoam wrote:

Does your husband also wear right over left and single button shirts?

What? No

amother

↑ Violet

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:49 pm

amother Lightcyan wrote:

Not with the tante part

Do chassidish people not call aunts Tanta so and so?

amother

Tangerine ↓

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:53 pm

I was in a dress shop in Flatbush, and was sitting, waiting for dresser, to fit me, in front of glass windows, there was a man, m-sturbating in front of the glass, outside store, trying to get my attention. That is gross. Not from outside his pants. Just pulling his d-ck upward out of his pants. Ugh!

amother

↑ Thistle

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 9:55 pm

amother Violet wrote:

Do chassidish people not call aunts Tanta so and so?

No
Tanta is not a word in the chassidish lexicon.

amother

↑ Tangerine

Wed, Dec 11 2024, 10:01 pm

amother Thistle wrote:

No
Tanta is not a word in the chassidish lexicon.

Was a generation ago.
My aunts were called mima for respect. Great aunts neni. And Russian Bobba cousins tante.

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