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amother
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Post Today at 1:50 pm
DH was giving our toddler a bath and he started to pee. He didn't want to change the bathwater so he gave him a negel vasser cup to make in. I find that so gross and was really upset with him. Am I overreacting or not?
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amother
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Post Today at 1:52 pm
Of course you're overreacting, what is the big deal? I've done the same, for a kid even older than a toddler. No biggie.
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imasinger  




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 1:52 pm
Is this your first boy?
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amother
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Post Today at 1:53 pm
imasinger wrote:
Is this your first boy?


No
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amother
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Post Today at 1:53 pm
lol my little brother only wanted to pee in a negel vasser cup for the first year or so after toilet training. Even in cheder.
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amother
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Post Today at 1:54 pm
amother Forestgreen wrote:
Of course you're overreacting, what is the big deal? I've done the same, for a kid even older than a toddler. No biggie.


How do you clean the cup afterwards? Feels yuck to use it to wash hands now.
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amother
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Post Today at 1:55 pm
Overreacting just wash it well with soap. You can leave it soaking in soap for a bit.
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amother
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Post Today at 1:56 pm
amother OP wrote:
How do you clean the cup afterwards? Feels yuck to use it to wash hands now.


I wash it with fantastic.
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amother
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Post Today at 1:56 pm
I think males have different ideas when it comes to gross LOL. Get another cup if you want. You can get a plastic cup for cheap in most grocery stores
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effess




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 1:56 pm
Wash it with soap and warm water
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amother
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Post Today at 2:00 pm
amother OP wrote:
DH was giving our toddler a bath and he started to pee. He didn't want to change the bathwater so he gave him a negel vasser cup to make in. I find that so gross and was really upset with him. Am I overreacting or not?

Yeah, I think you're overreacting, tho it's a little gross.
I also hate it when adults say "make"!!! Sounds so immature, it's my pet peeve I guess
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amother
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Post Today at 2:03 pm
Washing machine.

At first thought it's gross, but to bathe in pish is even worse.
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hodeez




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 2:09 pm
That was actually good thinking on your husband's part.
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  imasinger




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 2:13 pm
If you have a dishwasher, you can also put it in that.

Negel vasser cups should be washed regularly anyway, maybe DH and DS ended up doing you a favor.
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amother
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Post Today at 6:32 pm
I’ll be the odd one out and say it’s terrible chinuch to lead a child to think it’s okay to pee into containers that will then be used for other purposes, especially ones that are hygiene or kodesh or food related
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Ema of 5  




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 6:35 pm
imasinger wrote:
If you have a dishwasher, you can also put it in that.

Negel vasser cups should be washed regularly anyway, maybe DH and DS ended up doing you a favor.

Why do they need to be washed? Assuming they are only used for water.
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amother
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Post Today at 6:36 pm
Every baby and little kid pees in the bath and not always do you know about it to change the water
I think your overreacting at least it was in a cup
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  Ema of 5  




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 6:36 pm
amother Daylily wrote:
I’ll be the odd one out and say it’s terrible chinuch to lead a child to think it’s okay to pee into containers that will then be used for other purposes, especially ones that are hygiene or kodesh or food related

I’ve taught my boys to use water bottles when in the car because it’s not always possible to stop. I wish there was something similar I could do for my girls.
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amother
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Post Today at 6:41 pm
Ema of 5 wrote:
I’ve taught my boys to use water bottles when in the car because it’s not always possible to stop. I wish there was something similar I could do for my girls.


I assume those water bottles are not then reused for drinking water again afterwards?
And that the boys know well and good that they are not to be reused for drinking water?
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amother
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Post Today at 6:49 pm
Ema of 5 wrote:
Why do they need to be washed? Assuming they are only used for water.


Neigal vasser cups need to be washed well often even if you never pee in them. They get mildew or something uchy and slimy. Need good scrubbing !
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