So grossed out - am I overreacting?

amother

OP ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 1:50 pm

DH was giving our toddler a bath and he started to pee. He didn't want to change the bathwater so he gave him a negel vasser cup to make in. I find that so gross and was really upset with him. Am I overreacting or not?

amother

Forestgreen ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 1:52 pm

Of course you're overreacting, what is the big deal? I've done the same, for a kid even older than a toddler. No biggie.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 1:53 pm

imasinger wrote:

Is this your first boy?

amother

Powderblue

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 1:53 pm

lol my little brother only wanted to pee in a negel vasser cup for the first year or so after toilet training. Even in cheder.

amother

↑ OP

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 1:54 pm

amother Forestgreen wrote:

Of course you're overreacting, what is the big deal? I've done the same, for a kid even older than a toddler. No biggie.

How do you clean the cup afterwards? Feels yuck to use it to wash hands now.

amother

Sienna

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 1:55 pm

Overreacting just wash it well with soap. You can leave it soaking in soap for a bit.

amother

↑ Forestgreen ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 1:56 pm

amother OP wrote:

How do you clean the cup afterwards? Feels yuck to use it to wash hands now.

I wash it with fantastic.

amother

Snow

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 1:56 pm

I think males have different ideas when it comes to gross LOL. Get another cup if you want. You can get a plastic cup for cheap in most grocery stores

amother

Marigold

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 2:00 pm

amother OP wrote:

Yeah, I think you're overreacting, tho it's a little gross.
I also hate it when adults say "make"!!! Sounds so immature, it's my pet peeve I guess

amother

Emerald

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 2:03 pm

Washing machine.

At first thought it's gross, but to bathe in pish is even worse.

hodeez

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 2:09 pm

That was actually good thinking on your husband's part.

↑ imasinger

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 2:13 pm

If you have a dishwasher, you can also put it in that.

Negel vasser cups should be washed regularly anyway, maybe DH and DS ended up doing you a favor.

amother

Daylily ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 6:32 pm

I’ll be the odd one out and say it’s terrible chinuch to lead a child to think it’s okay to pee into containers that will then be used for other purposes, especially ones that are hygiene or kodesh or food related

Ema of 5 ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 6:35 pm

imasinger wrote:

If you have a dishwasher, you can also put it in that.

Negel vasser cups should be washed regularly anyway, maybe DH and DS ended up doing you a favor.

Why do they need to be washed? Assuming they are only used for water.

amother

Pumpkin

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 6:36 pm

Every baby and little kid pees in the bath and not always do you know about it to change the water
I think your overreacting at least it was in a cup

↑ Ema of 5 ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 6:36 pm

amother Daylily wrote:

I’ve taught my boys to use water bottles when in the car because it’s not always possible to stop. I wish there was something similar I could do for my girls.

amother

↑ Daylily ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 6:41 pm

Ema of 5 wrote:

I’ve taught my boys to use water bottles when in the car because it’s not always possible to stop. I wish there was something similar I could do for my girls.

I assume those water bottles are not then reused for drinking water again afterwards?
And that the boys know well and good that they are not to be reused for drinking water?

amother

Slateblue ↓

Thu, Nov 07 2024, 6:49 pm

Ema of 5 wrote:

Why do they need to be washed? Assuming they are only used for water.

Neigal vasser cups need to be washed well often even if you never pee in them. They get mildew or something uchy and slimy. Need good scrubbing !