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If majority women stopped wearing high heels would you too?

Never! No heels no life

19%

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Of course! You won't need to say another word

45%

[ 68 ]

I'd wear them way less then I do now

18%

[ 27 ]

Other (write in post)

17%

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Total Votes : 150

amother

OP ↓

Yesterday at 12:26 pm

Curious as spinoof to the men comfort thread....regarding shapewear and heels. Do most women who wear them because were expected to? Like because of beauty standards?
Or because you like how you look / feel in it?

amother

Papayawhip

Yesterday at 12:32 pm

I already never wear them. I'm not destroying my feet just because other women are okay destroying theirs. I only get one pair and I want them to carry me until 120!

amother

Jean

Yesterday at 12:33 pm

I like them. They make my legs & body look nicer.

Ruchel

Yesterday at 12:35 pm

For the picture at close family Smachos and of course I wore them as a kallah and don't regret it, it's special. Wore low/mid heels during engagement

If I happened to find a pair that was as comfy as no heels, yes sure. I had one such pair, Clark's, and another, Versace (iirc?). Versace was even stiletto (kitten). But others HURT.

Last edited by Ruchel on Mon, Dec 02 2024, 12:40 pm; edited 2 times in total

amother

Wine

Yesterday at 12:36 pm

I love heels. completely changes your posture.
that being said, I only wear it to elegant events. not for every day wear

amother

Marigold

Yesterday at 12:38 pm

I’m short and heels make me look way better but I HATE wearing them, my feet kill! I would never wear them if that was a socially acceptable option. I only wear them to weddings, and I’m in agony the whole time.

amother

Midnight

Yesterday at 12:39 pm

I love a good kitten heel. I think they're nice compromise.

amother

Junglegreen

Yesterday at 12:39 pm

I love heels, wore them for years but after having kids, they hurt my feet too much.
I wish I could wear heels these days

amother

Molasses

Yesterday at 12:40 pm

I grew up in a community where everyone wears heels when dressed. Moved to a community where no one wears heels. Still wear heels sometimes. But much less than I used to.

Ema of 5

Yesterday at 12:40 pm

amother OP wrote:

I generally don’t wear high heels.

amother

Chicory

Yesterday at 12:44 pm

I stopped wearing heels during pregnancy and never went back! Flats for life! Heels are so incredibly uncomfortable. Now I don't even own heels because I have a bad hip and need shoes that can support me as I can get wobbly even in flats.

amother

Seablue

Yesterday at 12:45 pm

I hate having to comply with today’s beauty standards. (I know I don’t have to but I also don’t have the guts to be the weird odd one out.) high heels, shapewear, shaitel, makeup, tights… are SO uncomfortable for me. I’m a little sensory and also overweight and getting dressed up for a simcha or event is torture for me. I wish I could stay comfortable in loungewear all day every day.
In the other thread where people were saying we don’t get xyz (whatever the men get) but we do get to dress up in makeup and shaitels and fancy dresses… thanks but I really don’t need that.

amother

Valerian

Yesterday at 12:46 pm

I don't wear heels often. Only to close simchas. I don't think I would wear any less than I currently do. I think it looks nice.

amother

↑ OP

Yesterday at 12:57 pm

amother Seablue wrote:

Yeah I was thinking the same. Everything feels so itchy and tight.

Aurora

Yesterday at 1:09 pm

If my back and feet were in better shape after pregnancy, I'd wear them to schul again. I think some are really pretty.

amother

Gold

Yesterday at 1:16 pm

Never wear heels they are super uncomfortable. Might buy a pair for the bedroom because dh likes it (but not in public)
But I dont care to much about social norms

blima1

Yesterday at 2:10 pm

I am almost 6ft so I never wear heals either way Smile

amother

Honey

Yesterday at 2:57 pm

This is gonna sound wierd and I dont find heels very comfortable , but the times when I went to a wedding and wasnt wearing heels It didnt feel like a wedding.
Seriously.

But I only now wear with a strap or elastic, slingback etc or something holding my foot in.

amother

Skyblue

Yesterday at 3:31 pm

I don't wear heels and never have. Too uncomfortable and so unhealthy for the feet. My husband is the same height or maybe 1-2 inches taller than me so I have an excuse to tell people for whom the other reasons aren't enough.

hodeez

Yesterday at 3:34 pm

Almost never wear heels and when I do I take them off as soon as I'm seated 😂 my feet are way too flat for this

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