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  chanatron1000  




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 10 2024, 5:33 pm
amother Jetblack wrote:
More than one thing can be true at the same time.


Especially when they're two sides of the same coin. When the choice is between seeing women as objects of forbidden temptation or the same thing, but permissible for male consumption.
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  mizle10




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 10 2024, 5:58 pm
lasagna wrote:
You can use techloq filter so you can shop without skin images and unblock only specific links of clothign you open. Then you can shop online without the fear of seeing such grossness


Techloq didn't block it on my computer What
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PinkFridge  




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 10 2024, 6:17 pm
First Lady wrote:
Disgusting how they're pushing this agenda.


Yes. Though I wouldn't want a straight couple to be doing this either on this site.
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amother
Offwhite  


 

Post Sun, Nov 10 2024, 7:10 pm
Went to check. Is it the 2 women dancing together? I dont see it being that inappropriate. I wouldn't have really noticed it had I not read about it here.
Am I missing something? It doesn't even seem s-xual. Just regular weird.
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HonesttoGod  




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 10 2024, 9:27 pm
amother Offwhite wrote:
Went to check. Is it the 2 women dancing together? I dont see it being that inappropriate. I wouldn't have really noticed it had I not read about it here.
Am I missing something? It doesn't even seem s-xual. Just regular weird.


Same here. I’m really confused by the hyper-sexualization on here. Like ok it’s not awesome and beautiful and not something I’d choose but it’s not omg the world is ending. They’re not even touching each other all over they’re literally just dancing together!

This is marketing - they sell what speaks and obviously this does. I mean have you seen Zara’s marketing? It’s awful too!
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amother
Catmint


 

Post Sun, Nov 10 2024, 9:29 pm
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Went to check. Is it the 2 women dancing together? I dont see it being that inappropriate. I wouldn't have really noticed it had I not read about it here.
Am I missing something? It doesn't even seem s-xual. Just regular weird.

I agree. I watched it a few times because I thought I was missing something. Just seems bizarre and weird, but I didn't think twice about it
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  lasagna




 
 
    
 

Post Sun, Nov 10 2024, 9:36 pm
If you turn on the sound you it is talking about "what is love". Also, note the two women with their heads together like their gonna kiss. It is not hyper sexualization, it's and agenda.

And yeah, seems my techloq filter did not block it either. probably because I have slightly looser settings for my computer.
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amother
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Post Sun, Nov 10 2024, 10:51 pm
Update: eerily as if she read my mind my daughter asked me if she can shop online, and then told me she tried all the Jewish sites, since its winter she could prob find on the non jewish sites too... I checked on the computer first without her watching... And on my computer the videos were blocked! I have netspark on my computer. No idea how it realized to block it, pictures and videos are not usually blocked unless very explicit topics. I was wondering for a while if its really an effective filter. 10 points for netspark.

And what a crazy world we live in!
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thesoundofmusic




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 1:47 am
PLEASE PUT ON FILTERS!
THIS IS WHAT OUR GEDOLIM HAVE TOLD US TO DO.
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amother
Navy


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 3:20 am
There are filters (Techloq) that do skin filtering on images if you choose that option.

I find it very helpful for this kind of thing. For clothing you can easily open up the specific page with the specific outfit with a code.

Honestly, I do not find iut an better when its a straight couple - its disgusting that the western world has decided to use what should a sacred beautiful, intimate, moment between people who love each other as a way to sell stuff.

Its been this way for a long long time and its always been gross. The gay and trans stuff is just the next level because you need to keep pushing the envelope and the shirtless guys and bikini girls are boring after years and years of being bombarded with images.....
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amother
Ivory  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 8:28 am
thesoundofmusic wrote:
PLEASE PUT ON FILTERS!
THIS IS WHAT OUR GEDOLIM HAVE TOLD US TO DO.


We have filters. A pretty good one. These images showed up anyway.
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amother
  Ivory


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 8:29 am
amother Navy wrote:
There are filters (Techloq) that do skin filtering on images if you choose that option.


And the filter doesn't block the shopping?
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LovesHashem




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 1:42 pm
PinkFridge wrote:
Yes. Though I wouldn't want a straight couple to be doing this either on this site.


Yeah. I'm not actually grossed out that it's two women at all. Just way too much touching and groping, I don't care what genders they are.

Ew.
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Ruchel




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 1:50 pm
I wouldn't want anyone

I do wonder who it's meant for

Are most clients gay?
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amother
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Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 3:13 pm
amother OP wrote:
Update: eerily as if she read my mind my daughter asked me if she can shop online, and then told me she tried all the Jewish sites, since its winter she could prob find on the non jewish sites too... I checked on the computer first without her watching... And on my computer the videos were blocked! I have netspark on my computer. No idea how it realized to block it, pictures and videos are not usually blocked unless very explicit topics. I was wondering for a while if its really an effective filter. 10 points for netspark.

And what a crazy world we live in!


And if your daughter would have seen it, what then? Granted it's weird looking but what are you so afraid of?
I guarantee she wouldn't have even noticed and clicked right past it to the clothing.
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  chanatron1000  




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 3:15 pm
Ruchel wrote:
I wouldn't want anyone

I do wonder who it's meant for

Are most clients gay?


I think you're supposed to be impressed at how cultured and highbrow they are.
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  PinkFridge  




 
 
    
 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 4:09 pm
chanatron1000 wrote:
I think you're supposed to be impressed at how cultured and highbrow they are.


No.
It's how inclusive they are.
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amother
Freesia


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 4:43 pm
HonesttoGod wrote:
Same here. I’m really confused by the hyper-sexualization on here. Like ok it’s not awesome and beautiful and not something I’d choose but it’s not omg the world is ending. They’re not even touching each other all over they’re literally just dancing together!

This is marketing - they sell what speaks and obviously this does. I mean have you seen Zara’s marketing? It’s awful too!


Later on they are nuzzling each other, faces close and about to kiss, whispering in each other's ears etc
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amother
  Bluebonnet  


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 4:46 pm
They responded basically-

We’re so sorry it offended your values but we’re trying to be inclusive 😩 in a nicer way
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amother
  Vanilla


 

Post Mon, Nov 11 2024, 4:46 pm
amother Bluebonnet wrote:
They responded basically-

We’re so sorry it offended your values but we’re trying to be inclusive 😩 in a nicer way


At least you got a response - I didn't!
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