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-> Our Challenging Children (gifted, ADHD, sensitive, defiant)
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 Today at 1:08 am
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My husband self diagnosed himself. I have to say that things have really improved since he figured it out. It’s not perfect but he can catch himself now.
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amother
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Today at 1:49 am
| amother OP wrote: | | What vicious cycle? Underlying cause for both what? |
For both the anxiety and the RSD. They feed off each other and there's usually an underlying cause for both of them.
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Raizle
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Today at 2:31 am
Oh wow, this explains so much about someone I know
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amother
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Today at 5:20 am
| amother OP wrote: | | RSD isn't given as a diagnosis anywhere. It's just a term that explains the extreme reactions some people have to criticism and perceived rejection. Obviously this child has other things going on. I was just wondering if anyone dealt with this from a parenting end and how. |
I used to be like this.
I was a rejected unwanted child with self esteem below zero.
since starting to heal, I am much better.
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amother
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Today at 5:24 am
| amother Mocha wrote: | The people in my life who have it certainly don't think they're perfect. in fact, it's the opposite.
They are very down on themselves.
If I bring up something to dh that he does that hurts me, he literally gets down and depressed for a few days wondering how such a horrible person he could be for hurting me.
It took a long time for me to understand this, I kept saying "I don't get it, YOU hurt ME, how is this all about YOU now?" |
I was the same.
if I acknowledged that I hurt someone I would be sick and depressed about.
I knew it wasnt healthy and its not because I am a nice person but because
I hate myself and cant accept myself for doing it...
dont know how to explain...
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amother
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Today at 7:33 am
| amother Chicory wrote: | | For both the anxiety and the RSD. They feed off each other and there's usually an underlying cause for both of them. | Yes, there's an underlying cause and we're dealing with but there are no quick or easy fixes. I still need to parent my child.
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