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amother
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 Thu, Jul 18 2024, 8:00 pm
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Against my will. I sadly watch the negative effects on my dh and kids. I'm aware. I read books. I want to do better. I promise myself just today I'll be super careful. I take courses. I cry while listening in. I pity my family. I guess I grew up this way and it's so natural to me. I cannot control myself. It's been much worse lately since I'm not in a good place. I remember seeing a title of a thread something like I'm broke and in breaking my kids. I so relate. I so badly want to change. But when they pull down my skirt, fight, don't listen, ignore, tease, I just lose it. I feel horrible about it. Watch the effects on their behavior. Wish I wasn't like that but I'm afraid in giving up. Any hope?
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amother
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Thu, Jul 18 2024, 8:10 pm
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Have you ever tried therapy? This is a very common issue that ppl come into therapy for. There are many different modalities and ways to address it. Whenever I am skiing worse emotionally it affects my kids.
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amother
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Thu, Jul 18 2024, 8:10 pm
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amother
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Thu, Jul 18 2024, 8:46 pm
| amother Mistyrose wrote: | | Have you ever tried therapy? This is a very common issue that ppl come into therapy for. There are many different modalities and ways to address it. Whenever I am skiing worse emotionally it affects my kids. | I recently started therapy. I brought up something like this and she said something like walking away or similar and if it happened that you yelled to apologize. Doesn't help me much.
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amother
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Thu, Jul 18 2024, 9:51 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | I recently started therapy. I brought up something like this and she said something like walking away or similar and if it happened that you yelled to apologize. Doesn't help me much. |
You can let her know that you would like to work on not getting so triggered in the first place and see what she says.
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