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amother
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 Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:15 pm
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Until what age would you feel comfortable having your kids swim with like a random older man or woman who happen to be using the pool? Ty
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:17 pm
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:18 pm
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:19 pm
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Swimming in a resort pool with an another older man or one woman. With a family of kids.
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:20 pm
Mixed swimming is assur.
Ask your Rav for yourself.
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LovesHashem
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:21 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Swimming in a resort pool with an another older man or one woman. With a family of kids. |
I still do now.
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:25 pm
| amother Khaki wrote: | Mixed swimming is assur.
Ask your Rav for yourself. |
It’s assur for a girl over bas mitzva if there is another random man in the opposite side of the pool? Obviously the girl would be in a tznius swim dress.
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:25 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | It’s assur for a girl over bas mitzva if there is another random man in the opposite side of the pool? Obviously the girl would be in a tznius swim dress. |
Pretty sure yes.
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:26 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | It’s assur for a girl over bas mitzva if there is another random man in the opposite side of the pool? Obviously the girl would be in a tznius swim dress. |
Yes
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:26 pm
Under bas mitzvah it’s ok?
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:26 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | It’s assur for a girl over bas mitzva if there is another random man in the opposite side of the pool? Obviously the girl would be in a tznius swim dress. |
Yes it's assur for a man & women to be in the same body of water. Even if you're dressed tzenuis.
I think you should discuss it with your Rav to gain clarity.
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:27 pm
| amother Khaki wrote: | Yes it's assur for a man & women to be in the same body of water. Even if you're dressed tzenuis.
I think you should discuss it with your Rav to gain clarity. |
At a beach it’s ok but a pool isn’t ok?
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:27 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | At a beach it’s ok but a pool isn’t ok? |
Who told you that a beach is okay?
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:29 pm
Girls go to the beach in their swim dresses and surely there is a man somewhere on the beach??
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mha3484
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:32 pm
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The swimming programs we go to are under rabbi fuersts psak. Girls can go swimming with men/boys under age 5 and boys can go with women/girls under age 3.
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:33 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Girls go to the beach in their swim dresses and surely there is a man somewhere on the beach?? |
Many frum jews don't go to the beach. And many that do go, don't go in to the water.
And just because frum jews may go in to the water, it doesn't mean that it's halachically allowed.
This is something that you should be discussing with your Rav. You don't take halachic guidance from random women online.
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:35 pm
| amother Khaki wrote: | Many frum jews don't go to the beach. And many that do go, don't go in to the water.
And just because frum jews may go in to the water, it doesn't mean that it's halachically allowed.
This is something that you should be discussing with your Rav. You don't take halachic guidance from random women online. |
Can someone clarify this? Thanks
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:37 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Can someone clarify this? Thanks |
Just because you see people doing something wrong doesn’t make it right. Mixed swimming is not allowed. A beach might be different in that it’s very big and often you can have a large part to yourself and it’s hard to say you are sharing a body of water when the guy is far across the ocean. But a pool is a small confined body of water and most definitely a much bigger issue. Most girls I know will sit in the sand at the beach, they don’t actually go swimming in the water.
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 1:39 pm
| amother OP wrote: | | Can someone clarify this? Thanks |
As I said upthread, your Rav can clarify it for you. Imamother has all different types of jews that do differently, imamother can not pasken halacha for you.
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