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florida1




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 28 2005, 9:43 pm
at what age do you think its okay to begin to patch or hit your kid lightly for discipline reasons.
I saw my friend patch her kid very lightly but still she is only 14 months.!!!! that got me thinking
what do you think?

I think that is way to young!!!!!!
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Rivk  




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 28 2005, 9:46 pm
Actually, if it's not done in anger, I think it's just the right age! Personally, I have not potched my kids, but if I would, I would do it only up until age 3.
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shoy18




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 28 2005, 9:47 pm
that is way to young, they dont even understand what hitting as a consiquence means why bother with it
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  Rivk  




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 28 2005, 9:57 pm
I think they understand more than we give them credit for.
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deedee




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Sep 28 2005, 11:34 pm
I dont think its ever ok at any age! there are other effective ways to discipline children.
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  Rivk




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 29 2005, 8:20 am
Florida1 - was the potch effective? What was the child doing wrong?
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Meema2Kids




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 29 2005, 8:23 am
I think it depends on the child, whether they would understand it at this age. I would try other means first though.
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BrachaVHatzlocha




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Sep 29 2005, 10:04 pm
I think a little (light, not hurting) patch to a 1 year old is okay under certain circumstances - danger, etc... If the child keeps trying to turning the stove on, a little patch after a few times will hopefully teach him a lesson.
I have a 15 month old -- they're quite smart at that age! I don't patch him, but once in a while my husband will give him a light one
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imanut




 
 
    
 

Post Fri, Sep 30 2005, 4:57 pm
to my daughter "patchie, patchie" is a hand game, and once in the store my husband gave her a little patch, but she didn't get it at all. she thought he was playing with her.
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