Home
Log in / Sign Up
    Private Messages   Rules   New User Guide   FAQ   Advertise   Contact Us  
Forum -> Shopping -> Child & Baby Products
My kids are growing out of their winter clothes, now what?!
1  2  Next



Post new topic   Reply to topic View latest: 24h 48h 72h

amother
OP  


 

Post Yesterday at 11:07 pm
Am I the only one? Isn’t it a bit early? What do I do? Buy them more winter? It’s not spring for a while.. I don’t want to spoil them and buy extra things.. I also don’t want to discourage my DD when she tells me her dress is too short and she’s upset about it. (I agree with her) for reference, 7 yr old and 5 yr old girls
Back to top

amother
Gold


 

Post Yesterday at 11:10 pm
amother OP wrote:
Am I the only one? Isn’t it a bit early? What do I do? Buy them more winter? It’s not spring for a while.. I don’t want to spoil them and buy extra things.. I also don’t want to discourage my DD when she tells me her dress is too short and she’s upset about it. (I agree with her) for reference, 7 yr old and 5 yr old girls


It's not spoiling them to buy them clothes if they've outgrown the ones they have. Buy them new clothes if they need them. But maybe you have some older clothes from your 7 yo for the 5 yo?
Back to top

amother
Valerian


 

Post Yesterday at 11:10 pm
Bh they're growing! If it works for your budget, please buy them new clothes that fit. It's not spoiling them to have clothing that fit and feel comfortable.
And thank Hashem that you're children are growing.
Back to top

amother
DarkGray  


 

Post Yesterday at 11:10 pm
amother OP wrote:
Am I the only one? Isn’t it a bit early? What do I do? Buy them more winter? It’s not spring for a while.. I don’t want to spoil them and buy extra things.. I also don’t want to discourage my DD when she tells me her dress is too short and she’s upset about it. (I agree with her) for reference, 7 yr old and 5 yr old girls

Things are on sale. Get them what they need.

If their clothes lasted 3 months from October to January, they definitely need winter again for the next 3 months from January until April / Pesach.
Back to top

amother
Clear


 

Post Yesterday at 11:11 pm
I bought thinner cotton tops in next size that my kids will wear when they outgrow their winter stuff and in beginning of next winter
Back to top

amother
Sand


 

Post Yesterday at 11:15 pm
of course buy them new stuff. I don’t know where you live but here it’ll still be cold for another 3.5 months. I just bought my toddler son a whole bunch of things because he grew bh at least it’s all on sale now Smile
Back to top

lucky14




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 11:18 pm
How is that spoiling them??
They aren’t saying they are tired of their clothes and want new ones. They’re getting too small. That isn’t spoiling.
Back to top

mommy3b2c




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 11:21 pm
You’re scared to spoil your kids by buying them stuff that fit them ?? If you can’t afford to buy than I hear your dilemma . If you their clothes are to small and you have money to buy them more then you buy them more clothes . How is this even a question?
Back to top

amother
  OP  


 

Post Yesterday at 11:23 pm
OP here- so they’re not really growing out of them (arms fit) just getting above their knee a little.. which I never cared but now I guess they’re getting bigger.. so is this standard? Does everybody buy winter clothing 2x every year?

Another option I have is to take down some hems.. but I think that is like $20 each no?
Back to top

giftedmom  




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 11:23 pm
Yes there are great prices on winter stuff now buy asap before stores clear out and as others said you aren’t spoiling them
Back to top

amother
  OP


 

Post Yesterday at 11:24 pm
OP- unless maybe I bought sizes that fit perfectly at the beginning of the year when really I was supposed to size up more?
Back to top

  giftedmom  




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 11:26 pm
amother OP wrote:
OP here- so they’re not really growing out of them (arms fit) just getting above their knee a little.. which I never cared but now I guess they’re getting bigger.. so is this standard? Does everybody buy winter clothing 2x every year?

Another option I have is to take down some hems.. but I think that is like $20 each no?

There’s no standard. Each kid grows at their pace. Very common to have a growth spurt mid winter. If they and/or the school cares about covering knees then they need new dresses/skirts.
Back to top

amother
Honeysuckle


 

Post Yesterday at 11:26 pm
Do what you need to
Back to top

  giftedmom




 
 
    
 

Post Yesterday at 11:26 pm
amother OP wrote:
OP- unless maybe I bought sizes that fit perfectly at the beginning of the year when really I was supposed to size up more?

Forsure sizing up helps. I always give my kids some room to grow into their things.
Back to top

amother
  DarkGray


 

Post Yesterday at 11:27 pm
amother OP wrote:
OP- unless maybe I bought sizes that fit perfectly at the beginning of the year when really I was supposed to size up more?

That could be.
Back to top

imaima  




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 12:13 am
amother OP wrote:
Am I the only one? Isn’t it a bit early? What do I do? Buy them more winter? It’s not spring for a while.. I don’t want to spoil them and buy extra things.. I also don’t want to discourage my DD when she tells me her dress is too short and she’s upset about it. (I agree with her) for reference, 7 yr old and 5 yr old girls

How are you spoiling them when you buy clothes that fit? It’s literally your job.
Go out and buy something cheaper, not from the frum store
There are so many types of clothes that can be worn well into the spring till the real heat begins
Back to top

  imaima




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 12:15 am
amother OP wrote:
OP here- so they’re not really growing out of them (arms fit) just getting above their knee a little.. which I never cared but now I guess they’re getting bigger.. so is this standard? Does everybody buy winter clothing 2x every year?

Another option I have is to take down some hems.. but I think that is like $20 each no?


Yes you shop for your girls according to their growth pattern, and the same for boys. That won’t perfectly fit into seasons
Back to top

amother
Cognac  


 

Post Today at 12:23 am
Yes always size up at the beginning the season. Expect kids to grow. Of course if you buy exact it will be short in a few months. Also keep in mind that clothes shrink in the wash.

Buy now for next year, but they can wear it now also. So it will be a little big. That's fine.
Back to top

amother
  Cognac


 

Post Today at 12:24 am
Also, you can buy regular cotton clothes that are not season specific, so they will be for now and for the spring. They don't have to wear sweaters every day.
Back to top

amother
Canary


 

Post Today at 12:29 am
amother Cognac wrote:
Yes always size up at the beginning the season. Expect kids to grow. Of course if you buy exact it will be short in a few months. Also keep in mind that clothes shrink in the wash.

Buy now for next year, but they can wear it now also. So it will be a little big. That's fine.


This. For now buy what you need but for the future buy with growth in mind. My kids grow fast but rarely need a new wardrobe midyear. I hem most dresses & let down as needed (free- I do it myself). We sometimes get a second year of wear too.
Back to top
Page 1 of 2 1  2  Next Recent Topics




Post new topic   Reply to topic    Forum -> Shopping -> Child & Baby Products

Related Topics Replies Last Post
What to do when your kids tell you no
by amother
10 Today at 2:53 am View last post
Choo choo barn or national toy museum which is better kids?
by amother
0 Today at 12:45 am View last post
Games for kids on tablet
by amother
0 Yesterday at 8:56 pm View last post
Finances family of 5 kids 2 adults
by amother
71 Fri, Jan 10 2025, 2:58 pm View last post
Struggling relationships b/w parents & married kids
by amother
2 Fri, Jan 10 2025, 2:29 pm View last post