I’m a laid back person, more of a passive parent.
My husband is more of the tough personality type that maybe my son got. My husband is very worked on and channeled his strengths and is successful at what he does and is a great husband and father.
My husband said his childhood was very hard and he was bullied. He shared a lot of the traits my son has
- not willing to give in, always has to be right, be first at the game, sore loser
- very combative and picks fights
- get very angry very quickly and can’t figure out how to get along well with other kids.
In school he’s super cool and well liked but in other settings it doesn’t work.
We ate out today, the kids were ages 3-9 both genders everyone was playing beautifully and he was fighting with everyone the whole time. I wish I had the right tools.
All advice welcome