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Hates to be changed, why?



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amother
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Post Tue, Jun 25 2024, 3:43 pm
why would a toddler hate to be changed of a smelly ichy diaper? explain the thought process, anyone?
he fights me at every turn.
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amother
Birch


 

Post Tue, Jun 25 2024, 3:46 pm
Many kids don’t like the feeling. The wipes are too cold, the wipes burn, they just don’t want to lay still.. maybe try another brand of wipes. Does he have a rash? Is he in a lot of pain?
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shabbatiscoming




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Jun 25 2024, 3:48 pm
amother OP wrote:
why would a toddler hate to be changed of a smelly ichy diaper? explain the thought process, anyone?
he fights me at every turn.

Someone very wise once explained this to me when I was toilet training my child.
She said children are born and poop in a diaper. Thats all they know. The wet, mushy, smelly poo to us, is not bad to them. They are used to it and to some its actually comforting.
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amother
Blueberry


 

Post Tue, Jun 25 2024, 3:59 pm
Wish I knew! I have to fight my 22 month old and hold her down. The only thing that gets her to lay down is if I yell at her but I obviously feel awful when I lose my temper and do that. It’s so annoying.
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amother
Seashell


 

Post Tue, Jun 25 2024, 4:02 pm
Maybe he is bored lying still. Or feels helpless and trapped. Can you try offering a choice whether to change his lying down or standing up?
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LovesHashem




 
 
    
 

Post Tue, Jun 25 2024, 4:04 pm
Start telling him if he doesn't like it he can learn to use the toilet. Worked for one my kids.
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amother
Hyssop


 

Post Tue, Jun 25 2024, 4:05 pm
Time to toilet train! My daughter was giving me a tough time so even if she was younger, barely 2, I trained her and thankfully went smoothly.
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