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Today at 7:31 am
amother Lightgray wrote: | What is the source?
We have one bed, I had to have a hystetectomy. |
Biblical would mean deoraita.
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Today at 7:48 am
Hashem_Yaazor wrote: | It's one night, can someone sleep on the couch? |
This. Or a mattress of some type on the floor, or really any other way to not be in the same bed. You don't need to buy a new bed, but you do need to not sleep in the same one.
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Today at 8:48 am
amother Babyblue wrote: | I was told we do not need to keep all harchakos on Tisha B'Av, but yes on YK. |
Not all harchakos, but sheina b'mita achas is one of them.
Some are lenient and allow 2 beds touching on TB (not YK) but I've not come across a shitta that allows one single bed that night.
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Today at 9:37 am
Thanks all, and for all those wondering, I'm a 20 something not getting my period due to additional health issues
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Today at 10:03 am
I believe the issuer of sleeping in same bed applies to night of Yom Kippur for all . I would assume those who don’t have second bed one sleeps on couch or mattress cot etc .
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Today at 10:06 am
Get out the sukkah beds a bit early.
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Today at 10:07 am
amother Camellia wrote: | I had a hysterectomy for medical reasons at age 37. Therefore, I stopped being nida at a relatively young age. B"H I already had 4 children. |
Me too, exactly the same age, B"H I survived the post partum hemorrhaging at the birth of my last child.
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Today at 10:17 am
amother OP wrote: | I only have one bed, do harchakos of physically not sleeping together apply on Yom Kippur? Do I need to get a blow up mattress? | יום הכפורים אסור בתשמיש המטה ובו ב"ס:
יום הכפורים אסור בתשמיש המטה ואסור ליגע באשתו כאילו היא נדה וכן אסור לישן עם אשתו במטה:
“It is forbidden to have s-xual intercourse on Yom Kippur” - Containing two paragraphs.
It is forbidden to have s-xual intercourse on Yom Kippur and it is forbidden to touch one’s wife *The following comment is given by Magen Avraham, (see footnote 33.): 615:1 - "His wife": It is forbidden (for him) to touch (her, his wife) also during the day (not only at night) and he should also not talk to her too much (Shenei Luḥot ha-Berit, של״ה, see footnote 20a.). And in the Maharil, מהרי״ל, (see footnote 8), the meaning is that one is to treat her (one's wife) according to all the laws of niddah (s-xual impurity due to menstruation). as if she were in her menstrual period, and so it is forbidden to sleep with one’s wife in (the same) bed (even without intercourse).
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