YTA girls school jerusalem

amother

↑ Dodgerblue ↓

Yesterday at 5:40 am

loveJudaism wrote:

Oh and to reply with the haircut, it’s not wrong but at the same time it’s more of a goyshie look. You may disagree but that’s my opinion.

My point is that from everything you are saying it is beyond obvious that this school is not for you and your daughter.

↑ imaima ↓

Yesterday at 5:40 am

loveJudaism wrote:

Do you live there? Could you suggest some schools suitable for an English speaker (high school)?

No, I don’t live there.

amother

↑ Dodgerblue ↓

Yesterday at 5:42 am

loveJudaism wrote:

I didn’t say it was wrong.. and I’m not disparaging others, I’m just looking at the photos on their Facebook and what do you mean by frum?

It obviously does not matter what frum means. This school is not in line with your hashkafa.
When I say frum I mean keep shabbod and kashrus

↑ loveJudaism ↓

Yesterday at 5:42 am

imaima wrote:

I think you are possibly insulting many posters because dati leumi people believe that they follow halacha 100%. I don’t think you should word your postst like this if you expect help.

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↑ loveJudaism ↓

Yesterday at 5:43 am

amother Dodgerblue wrote:

It obviously does not matter what frum means. This school is not in line with your hashkafa.
When I say frum I mean keep shabbod and kashrus

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amother

↑ Dodgerblue ↓

Yesterday at 5:47 am

loveJudaism wrote:

This isn’t an insult, sorry you took it like that but I’m allowed to have my opinion and like I said you have all rights to disagree.
Anyway I got my answer so thank you

Yes, you can have your opinion, but you dont have to always express that opinion.
And of course its an insult.

amother

↑ Dodgerblue

Yesterday at 5:48 am

loveJudaism wrote:

Btw I was secular but I kept shabbat and kashrut (obviously didn’t know all the halachot of today but I kept what I knew which was the main and most of it), yet I wasn’t frum.

What does that have anything to do with anything here?

amother

Hosta

Yesterday at 5:51 am

loveJudaism wrote:

Btw I was secular but I kept shabbat and kashrut (obviously didn’t know all the halachot of today but I kept what I knew which was the main and most of it), yet I wasn’t frum.

I don't think you can be considered secular if you kept basic shabbos and kashrus.

It's a modern place, not a fit for your hashkafa.

ChalieB

Yesterday at 5:56 am

It's for girls from religious families, but it's definitely more MO/DL leaning. I wouldn't send my kids there if I was more on the Charedi side.

↑ loveJudaism ↓

Yesterday at 5:56 am

ChalieB wrote:

It's for girls from religious families, but it's definitely more MO/DL leaning. I wouldn't send my kids there if I was more on the Charedi side.

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↑ shabbatiscoming ↓

Yesterday at 6:00 am

loveJudaism wrote:

Btw I was secular but I kept shabbat and kashrut (obviously didn’t know all the halachot of today but I kept what I knew which was the main and most of it), yet I wasn’t frum.

Why do you say you werent frum if you kept shabbat and kashrut? Those are what make people frum. And taharat hamishpacha for n
married people.

↑ loveJudaism ↓

Yesterday at 6:02 am

shabbatiscoming wrote:

Why do you say you werent frum if you kept shabbat and kashrut? Those are what make people frum. And taharat hamishpacha for n
married people.

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↑ essie14 ↓

Yesterday at 6:03 am

loveJudaism wrote:

Oh and to reply with the haircut, it’s not wrong but at the same time it’s more of a goyshie look. You may disagree but that’s my opinion.

A short haircut is "goyshie"??

The school obviously is not for you. Why don't you start a new thread with your questions and requirements instead of continuing to insult a school and community that you clearly don't belong to?

↑ loveJudaism ↓

Yesterday at 6:05 am

[quote="essie14"]A short haircut is "goyshie"??
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↑ essie14

Yesterday at 6:05 am

loveJudaism wrote:

Because I wore trousers, didn’t cover my hair, didn’t have good language, didn’t do anything else towards Judaism apart from the two. I know secular people that keep Shabbat, doesn’t make them religious and I know girls who grew up in religious homes, kept Shabbat but don’t respect Judaism at all (usually from ignorance). To be religious is to behave religious and be a representative of hashems nation, not just follow his laws robotically

You are totally derailing this thread. Your personal beliefs about what make a person frum has nothing to do with this school.

↑ loveJudaism

Yesterday at 6:06 am

essie14 wrote:

You are totally derailing this thread. Your personal beliefs about what make a person frum has nothing to do with this school.

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↑ shabbatiscoming

Yesterday at 6:08 am

loveJudaism wrote:

Well you are sorely mistaken. There are worlds of orthodox people where the women are just as you describe. They are NOT secular. Fir many it is exactly that.
Keeping shabbat and kashrut are the pillars of veing religioys/frum/orthodox. Im sorry you thought otherwise.

↑ imaima

Yesterday at 6:37 am

loveJudaism wrote:

To say that dati leumi or modern orthodox are not religious is an insult to these communities (there is „dati“ and „orthodox“ in there for a reason) and in this case, cyber bullying.
Many posters are reading this thread who belong to these communities.

To answer your question, you urgently need a mentor IRL to guide you. You are in for many surprises.
To integrate a 15 year old girl into the system of Jewish education from scratch requires a lot of fine chinuch skills and patience.

From what you have were so far, I think you should try a Lubavitch school, whether in England or in Israel.