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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 8:10 pm
Received a letter threatening that my kids can’t return to school after vacation until my balance from last year is paid up. Most of the balance is paid up but a few thousand is left. I have 9$ in the bank. I’m so stressed, any advice?
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amother
Impatiens


 

Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 8:11 pm
Calm them and discuss it.
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amother
Navyblue


 

Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 8:33 pm
Work out a payment plan and commit to giving something every month. Even if it's only a little bit. I'd think they'd have an interest in getting their money slowly rather than not at all - which is what will be if they kick you guys out.
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Alyssum


 

Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 8:35 pm
How much do you owe?
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 8:36 pm
amother Alyssum wrote:
How much do you owe?

A few thousand. Less then 5.
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amother
Ghostwhite


 

Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 8:42 pm
amother OP wrote:
A few thousand. Less then 5.

From previous years?
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 8:43 pm
amother Ghostwhite wrote:
From previous years?

From last year.
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amother
Feverfew


 

Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 9:21 pm
Wow, first of all your school is very understanding. I can't believe they allowed your children in September with a balance from last year.

So call, set up a meeting and disclose your personal financials. Hopefully they will figure out a way to work together with you.
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 9:28 pm
amother OP wrote:
From last year.
What about this year? Are they counting this year's payments toward this year instead of last year?

I would start calling all my relatives to ask them to donate to the school, and specify that they should say it goes toward your bill.
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amother
Currant


 

Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 9:56 pm
1. Make a meeting with your ran asap. He is your advocate.
2. Make a meeting with mesila. Have them write a letter to the school for an objective assessment of your financials, including the amount you can afford and a payment plan that works.
3. Meet with the school.
4. Daven!!
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amother
Offwhite


 

Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 10:05 pm
I would speak to your rav first. I’d be surprised if it’s halachically permissible and perhaps he can advocate on your behalf
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 10:15 pm
amother Thistle wrote:
What about this year? Are they counting this year's payments toward this year instead of last year?

I would start calling all my relatives to ask them to donate to the school, and specify that they should say it goes toward your bill.

Not everyone has relatives with money.
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