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amother
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Post Wed, Jan 01 2025, 7:07 pm
amother Jean wrote:
Is it a thing that men get home at 6 across the board? Never heard of that.


DH gets home at 6:30. That is fairly common.
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 1:23 am
amother Green wrote:
Right, that's why we started skipping grandparents/extended family parties & go to just our parents.


Same. Especially since we aren't that large a family so if we had every iteration of grandparent making a party it would be mostly the same people.
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 2:42 am
See, this is why y'all should live here in Australia. We can have a Chanukah party at 6, stay for 2-3 hours, get home and bath everyone and then it's about 10pm - time to light coz it just got dark LOL
oh and everyone's on summer vacation so your schedules outta whack anyway
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 2:46 am
amother OP wrote:
Can't skip any just because...

The party starts at 8:30/9:00 and then you wait till the end for the presents/gelt


That’s very late. It can’t be „for the kids“ at this hour.
OTOH if it’s the middle of chanuka, they wake up late, have them nap late and go to a late party. Shift the entire schedule.
Do you really have a party every night?
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 2:49 am
Do people work on New Year’s and x-mas where you are? How much work was really happening during Chanukah? Or are all Jewish places open?
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 5:04 am
amother Periwinkle wrote:
Do people work on New Year’s and x-mas where you are? How much work was really happening during Chanukah? Or are all Jewish places open?


A lot of people volunteer to cover those days, to give themselves a bit more flexibility when it comes to taking off for the Chagim.
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 5:39 am
My Chanukah was very difficult. I don't know why it was so bad. Everyone fought so much, we were sick most of it, not one candle lighting was pleasant, not one recipe worked out. I hope next year will be better.
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amother
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Post Thu, Jan 02 2025, 8:00 am
Not a single party here, so none of that pressure, except mesibos in yeshiva. Everyone (we are a boy family) went to see the rebbe's candlelighting every night, so I had a calm and quiet evening. The only hard thing was cooking/frying/baking all the Chanukah specialties and cleaning up after them. I was off though, so I really can't complain.
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