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amother
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Post Today at 5:40 pm
amother Valerian wrote:
It also stands for "female to male" which is why I advise against using it now-a-days.


Oops. I didn’t realize that Can't Believe It
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  ra_mom  




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 6:12 pm
OP, you're a hero! A mother lion fighting for her baby cub.

Hashem should send a complete and speedy refuah shelaima for your daughter and complete menuchas hanefesh for you. You're doing what you need to.

You got this! You are your sweetie's best and only advocate.

May Hashem send you the right shaliachim to quick healing and recovery!
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amother
  Taupe


 

Post Today at 6:58 pm
Op I just went through this runaround recently with my son.
The Dr was at a loss as well but I kept insisting they check for mono instead of sending me for a chest x-ray again. They did and results finally proved I was right, he had epstein barr with fever for several weeks.
I think the UTI could be secondary but certainly something else going on which is why the fever is still there. Something like mono could cause UTI as well.
Hope it should be something simple that you and can all get through soon iyh. Refua sheleima and keep us posted.
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amother
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Post Today at 7:21 pm
Are you still hanging out in ER?
Are you going home or do they want to admit her?
How’s your daughter feeling now?
How’s your husband handling this?
What a long day! You must be tired and hungry…
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amother
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Post Today at 7:42 pm
amother NeonPink wrote:
Are you still hanging out in ER?
Are you going home or do they want to admit her?
How’s your daughter feeling now?
How’s your husband handling this?
What a long day! You must be tired and hungry…

Oh boy what a day. Admitting her. And crazy lady I am I'm not even upset! I'm just so relieved and grateful they found what's wrong. A uti! For whatever reasons we don't know the other meds didn't work. They started her on I don't know which antibiotic and now waiting for culture to see of it matches. My daughter is bh so much better. Probably from being well hydrated. Don't know how about the fever because she's still on motrin. They took a sono to make sure an abscess wasn't born from the uti technically left untreated. Waiting for results for that.
Dh is bh very ok. After work he came to the hospital. (He couldn't stop drop and run with his kind of work). We had a very open discussion. I discussed with him my feelings and bh all is great.
I'm still in the er waiting for a bed upstairs
I'm not even tired. Hungry oh yes. Dh coming back soon. Went home to be with the kids a little. He's bringing back food and we'll eat supper together-which is such a treat because we never have a chance for a meal just us 2.
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amother
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Post Today at 7:47 pm
amother OP wrote:
Oh boy what a day. Admitting her. And crazy lady I am I'm not even upset! I'm just so relieved and grateful they found what's wrong. A uti! For whatever reasons we don't know the other meds didn't work. They started her on I don't know which antibiotic and now waiting for culture to see of it matches. My daughter is bh so much better. Probably from being well hydrated. Don't know how about the fever because she's still on motrin. They took a sono to make sure an abscess wasn't born from the uti technically left untreated. Waiting for results for that.
Dh is bh very ok. After work he came to the hospital. (He couldn't stop drop and run with his kind of work). We had a very open discussion. I discussed with him my feelings and bh all is great.
I'm still in the er waiting for a bed upstairs
I'm not even tired. Hungry oh yes. Dh coming back soon. Went home to be with the kids a little. He's bringing back food and we'll eat supper together-which is such a treat because we never have a chance for a meal just us 2.

There should be a chesed room with kosher hot food, drinks and snacks. You can ask around to find out where it is
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amother
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Post Today at 7:54 pm
Colombias bikur Choilim room is on the 6th floor, north tower. Door is the first left upon exiting the north elevators, first door on left
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amother
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Post Today at 7:55 pm
amother OP wrote:
Oh boy what a day. Admitting her. And crazy lady I am I'm not even upset! I'm just so relieved and grateful they found what's wrong. A uti! For whatever reasons we don't know the other meds didn't work. They started her on I don't know which antibiotic and now waiting for culture to see of it matches. My daughter is bh so much better. Probably from being well hydrated. Don't know how about the fever because she's still on motrin. They took a sono to make sure an abscess wasn't born from the uti technically left untreated. Waiting for results for that.
Dh is bh very ok. After work he came to the hospital. (He couldn't stop drop and run with his kind of work). We had a very open discussion. I discussed with him my feelings and bh all is great.
I'm still in the er waiting for a bed upstairs
I'm not even tired. Hungry oh yes. Dh coming back soon. Went home to be with the kids a little. He's bringing back food and we'll eat supper together-which is such a treat because we never have a chance for a meal just us 2.


Thank you for the update

And bh they found the cause

I hope it’s easily resolved and you can get home fast

Besuros tovos!
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amother
Ginger  


 

Post Today at 8:07 pm
I've been thinking about you and your DD all day and checking this thread. BH glad to hear they found the cause and have started her on treatment.
Wishing her a refuah sheleima very soon and lots of strength to you!
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amother
  Starflower


 

Post Today at 8:07 pm
amother Holly wrote:
There should be a chesed room with kosher hot food, drinks and snacks. You can ask around to find out where it is


It's on the 6th floor of the children's building.
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  ra_mom




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 8:09 pm
amother OP wrote:
Oh boy what a day. Admitting her. And crazy lady I am I'm not even upset! I'm just so relieved and grateful they found what's wrong. A uti! For whatever reasons we don't know the other meds didn't work. They started her on I don't know which antibiotic and now waiting for culture to see of it matches. My daughter is bh so much better. Probably from being well hydrated. Don't know how about the fever because she's still on motrin. They took a sono to make sure an abscess wasn't born from the uti technically left untreated. Waiting for results for that.
Dh is bh very ok. After work he came to the hospital. (He couldn't stop drop and run with his kind of work). We had a very open discussion. I discussed with him my feelings and bh all is great.
I'm still in the er waiting for a bed upstairs
I'm not even tired. Hungry oh yes. Dh coming back soon. Went home to be with the kids a little. He's bringing back food and we'll eat supper together-which is such a treat because we never have a chance for a meal just us 2.

Hug
You knew it was still the UTI! Chas vishalom it would have been left untreated any longer. The fever was her body trying to scream something is wrong.
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amother
  Fern


 

Post Today at 8:19 pm
I've been thinking about you all day. I'm so relieved to hear your update. I hope your precious dd continues to get better and has a Refua shelaima!
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amother
Hibiscus


 

Post Today at 8:24 pm
amother OP wrote:
His bedside manners are non existent. I'm scared of him. You can't ask any questions. He comes in announces what he has to say and runs away.


Is this a pediatrician group? If so, I think I know who you are talking about. I think this dr is TERRIBLE!!! Can you see any other dr in the group? This dr never takes me seriously.
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amother
  OP  


 

Post Today at 8:30 pm
amother Hibiscus wrote:
Is this a pediatrician group? If so, I think I know who you are talking about. I think this dr is TERRIBLE!!! Can you see any other dr in the group? This dr never takes me seriously.

No. It's Dr. Stock top urologist in NYC.
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amother
  Chicory


 

Post Today at 8:31 pm
amother Hibiscus wrote:
Is this a pediatrician group? If so, I think I know who you are talking about. I think this dr is TERRIBLE!!! Can you see any other dr in the group? This dr never takes me seriously.


Ya it’s hard to believe a dr wouldn’t be concerned on his own when fever persists after being “treated” for a uti. Especially when there are different kinds of bacteria. It’s not normal for fever to persist more than 24 hours after starting treatment. I am so happy you advocated for ur daughter and took matters into your own hands. Your pediatrician made a big mistake not catching this on his own.
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amother
  OP  


 

Post Today at 8:32 pm
Sono was bh all clear. Everything looks great. No abscess either. So now I feel like making a dance. Lol. Bloods looked great other than the inflammatory markers. Oh bladder showed infection on sono. Dont ask me how they see but they do. So yea...
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amother
  OP  


 

Post Today at 8:34 pm
amother Chicory wrote:
Ya it’s hard to believe a dr wouldn’t be concerned on his own when fever persists after being “treated” for a uti. Especially when there are different kinds of bacteria. It’s not normal for fever to persist more than 24 hours after starting treatment. I am so happy you advocated for ur daughter and took matters into your own hands. Your pediatrician made a big mistake not catching this on his own.

I discussed that with dh too. He's usually an alarmist. Whatever it was a great lesson.
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amother
  Lemonchiffon  


 

Post Today at 8:34 pm
amother OP wrote:
Oh boy what a day. Admitting her. And crazy lady I am I'm not even upset! I'm just so relieved and grateful they found what's wrong. A uti! For whatever reasons we don't know the other meds didn't work. They started her on I don't know which antibiotic and now waiting for culture to see of it matches. My daughter is bh so much better. Probably from being well hydrated. Don't know how about the fever because she's still on motrin. They took a sono to make sure an abscess wasn't born from the uti technically left untreated. Waiting for results for that.
Dh is bh very ok. After work he came to the hospital. (He couldn't stop drop and run with his kind of work). We had a very open discussion. I discussed with him my feelings and bh all is great.
I'm still in the er waiting for a bed upstairs
I'm not even tired. Hungry oh yes. Dh coming back soon. Went home to be with the kids a little. He's bringing back food and we'll eat supper together-which is such a treat because we never have a chance for a meal just us 2.


Wow thanks for the update. Does your DH understand why you took her in? You had said earlier he wasn’t thrilled at the idea… Does he understand the women’s intuition now?

Also just curious if it’s a UTI why are they admitting?
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amother
  OP  


 

Post Today at 8:36 pm
amother Lemonchiffon wrote:
Wow thanks for the update. Does your DH understand why you took her in? You had said earlier he wasn’t thrilled at the idea… Does he understand the women’s intuition now?

Also just curious if it’s a UTI why are they admitting?

Lol. A mother's intuition only a mother can understand. He understands? Um yea he does. We discussed it at length. He's not upset anymore because he sees how calm I am now v. How crazy I was the last week.
They're admitting because she's sick for over 3 weeks. They need to get it under control once and for all.
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  bsy  




 
 
    
 

Post Today at 9:09 pm
amother OP wrote:
No. It's Dr. Stock top urologist in NYC.

I just want to put out there that I've had a very good experience with Dr stock. We're using him since the end of March and he's been great. I've texted him questions, called at night, called his office etc and I can ask any questions I have. I don't want anyone to be discouraged from using him if they need a good urologist
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