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 Today at 11:49 am
Chassidish boys are taught to position themselves with proper posture to aim touch free.
My 3 yr old's rebbe was able to identify a correctable issue with my son hen he took the boys for potty time because he couldn't achieve that. He needed a minor procedure and is now perfectly fine bh.
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amother
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Today at 12:12 pm
| amother Cantaloupe wrote: | Let's clarify.
Some men (boys) body's aim beautifully without assistance. Awesome.
Some don't! Needs a little help.
Chasidish here. Boys house. Very rebbish friends, neighbors, playground teachers etc. All help boys learn to aim. They do not need to actually touch eiver. Can use tissue sleeve undershirt etc at top to help aim without ever actually touching eiver.
If your boys don't have good aim please teach them |
Can you please explain the reasoning behind this? Do they not wash their pen1s when bathing or showering? And what if he needs to "help" to enter his wife?
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amother
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Today at 1:15 pm
| amother Jade wrote: | Chassidish boys are taught to position themselves with proper posture to aim touch free.
My 3 yr old's rebbe was able to identify a correctable issue with my son hen he took the boys for potty time because he couldn't achieve that. He needed a minor procedure and is now perfectly fine bh. |
...it's only necessary when there is pain urinating. Foe some boys the extra snip helps with aim . Some times it grows back. Doesn't always work.
..not all people can position selves or have "corrective procedures " some guys need to to assist aim or won't get bulls eye
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amother
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Today at 1:16 pm
| amother Peru wrote: | | Can you please explain the reasoning behind this? Do they not wash their pen1s when bathing or showering? And what if he needs to "help" to enter his wife? |
During intimacy they can touch it.
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amother
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Today at 1:17 pm
| amother Peru wrote: | | Can you please explain the reasoning behind this? Do they not wash their pen1s when bathing or showering? And what if he needs to "help" to enter his wife? |
...I feel like your blowing this out of context
..one can wash themselves without touching themselves (sponge, umph, soap bar)
...of course they should do what need with wife that the point here.
...there's no body shaming here just opposite. These days taught holy sacred etc.
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amother
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Today at 1:38 pm
| amother Cantaloupe wrote: | ...I feel like your blowing this out of context
..one can wash themselves without touching themselves (sponge, umph, soap bar)
...of course they should do what need with wife that the point here.
...there's no body shaming here just opposite. These days taught holy sacred etc.
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Ah so they cant touch their pen1s with their bare hands but with something in between its not an issue?
And how can I blow something out of context if I have no idea why this is even a thing?
So its so that they wont ever come to want to masturb@te? Ok, to each their own. Ill stay in my lane.
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amother
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Today at 2:40 pm
| amother Peru wrote: | Ah so they cant touch their pen1s with their bare hands but with something in between its not an issue?
And how can I blow something out of context if I have no idea why this is even a thing?
So its so that they wont ever come to want to masturb@te? Ok, to each their own. Ill stay in my lane. |
...not touching p... is not just a chasidish thing....
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amother
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Today at 2:45 pm
Not chassidish.
I've heard of men not touching specifically when going to the bathroom.
No idea what the source is.
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amother
Lightblue
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Today at 2:50 pm
| amother Brickred wrote: | | They don't need to hold themselves to aim. I feel like that would make it harder to go. |
Depends on the kid. One of my boys needed a bit of help or he peed too high, I taught him to press down a bit on the area above & that did the trick.
If the aim is too off please speak to your Dr, it can be easily corrected.
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amother
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Today at 2:57 pm
I never mentioned chassidish anything. That was other people.
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amother
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Today at 3:07 pm
| amother Peru wrote: | | I never mentioned chassidish anything. That was other people. |
..I'm aware but your writing as if this is some foreign unheard of concept so just clarifying...
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amother
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Today at 3:12 pm
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How about they sit down??? I hate when boys pee while standing up. No wonder most peoples bathrooms are disgusting with pee all over the place. Gross.
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amother
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Today at 3:31 pm
| amother Cantaloupe wrote: | | ..I'm aware but your writing as if this is some foreign unheard of concept so just clarifying... |
To me it is. But again, I never said anything about a specific group of frum jews. Not even sure why thats something here in my reply or yours to mine.
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Molly Weasley
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Today at 3:49 pm
It's not chassidish.
The SA forbids unmarried men from touching them their p even while urinating.
Unmarried may never touch, and I don't think that there's a halachaic disagreement about it
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amother
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Today at 4:20 pm
| amother Peru wrote: | | To me it is. But again, I never said anything about a specific group of frum jews. Not even sure why thats something here in my reply or yours to mine. |
I'm being polite. Just want to understand. I hear you never heard the concept that men shouldn't touch selves. Why does that seem to touch a raw cord. Why is it an issue to you if boys and men are not touching their privates?
(Honestly I dont think any gender child needs hands down their. Not halacha just mom opinions)
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