Are boys allowed to aim?

amother

OP ↓

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:36 am

Are boys allowed to hold their private parts to aim when going to the bathroom? I remember hearing something that only married men can? I need to know what to teach ds when toilet training

amother

White

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:40 am

Yes please reach them to aim. Goodness gracious.

There's nothing holy about spraying up the bathroom.

amother

Cantaloupe ↓

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:40 am

If they learn as tots they'll do it as men!
They can use a tissue or but of undershirt if you don't want them touching...

amother

Freesia ↓

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:44 am

Are you chassidish? And what does your husband think? She’s referring to people being makpid to never touch themselves.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:46 am

amother Freesia wrote:

Are you chassidish? And what does your husband think? She’s referring to people being makpid to never touch themselves.

No, JPF/slightly yeshivish leaning. Not sure why everyone is getting so worked up. I remember hearing this, looks like I'm wrong. Great!

amother

↑ Freesia ↓

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:47 am

amother OP wrote:

No, JPF/slightly yeshivish leaning. Not sure why everyone is getting so worked up. I remember hearing this, looks like I'm wrong. Great!

It’s only a chassidish thing. You can teach him to hold and aim.

amother

↑ OP

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:47 am

amother Cantaloupe wrote:

If they learn as tots they'll do it as men!
They can use a tissue or but of undershirt if you don't want them touching...

I would never have them use a tissue. If it's allowed it's allowed. I don't want them thinking private part is "gross"

mathbrain

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:53 am

Please aim! Otherwise his wife will be so pissed 🙈 to find out she has a husband who squirts the bathroom up!

amother

Tiffanyblue

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:56 am

No, boys and men are not supposed to touch themselves there.

amother

Navyblue

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:58 am

amother Freesia wrote:

It’s only a chassidish thing. You can teach him to hold and aim.

Are you chassidish? My chassidish boys aim and don't spray all over

amother

Copper ↓

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 7:58 am

Boys have to either aim or only pee sitting down.

amother

Lemonchiffon

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 8:09 am

amother Copper wrote:

Boys have to either aim or only pee sitting down.

Uhh no… mom of many boys here. They do not need to touch themselves in order to aim

miami85

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 8:13 am

amother Tiffanyblue wrote:

No, boys and men are not supposed to touch themselves there.

Source?

amother

Dustypink

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 8:22 am

My husband told me about this, it's something he learned to do. He wasn't raised doing it, so I don't know at what age it starts being a concern. I don't know the source, sorry.

amother

↑ Cantaloupe ↓

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 8:44 am

Let's clarify.
Some men (boys) body's aim beautifully without assistance. Awesome.
Some don't! Needs a little help.
Chasidish here. Boys house. Very rebbish friends, neighbors, playground teachers etc. All help boys learn to aim. They do not need to actually touch eiver. Can use tissue sleeve undershirt etc at top to help aim without ever actually touching eiver.
If your boys don't have good aim please teach them

giftedmom

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 8:45 am

Might be child dependent but it’s entirely possible for a boy to aim without touching anything

amother

Brickred ↓

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 8:48 am

They don't need to hold themselves to aim. I feel like that would make it harder to go.

amother

↑ Brickred

Thu, Nov 21 2024, 8:48 am

They don't need to hold themselves to aim. I feel like that would make it harder to go.