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amother
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Post Mon, May 20 2024, 12:44 am
My 4 year old is always with his hand in his pants. It drives me crazy. He has been doing this since he was a little baby.

Can anyone tell me if you had this with tour child and how you dealt with this? Is there any way to get him to stop? Sad
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amother
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Post Mon, May 20 2024, 1:22 am
I've redirected since babyhood to their belly button. I think that's why Hashem created it. Belly buttons are great fidgets.

I call the private part the "Makom Habris" and tell them that it is special and we touch it only for mitzvos. (Going to the bathroom is a mitzvah too if you are okay with them touching then.)
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amother
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Post Mon, May 20 2024, 6:56 am
I-g-n-o-r-e

I had one teacher who went crazy from it. She gave him keys etc…
As soon as he left her class it stopped being an issue- because we just ignored it.
During that year we sprayed a numbing spray…
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amother
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Post Mon, May 20 2024, 7:43 am
amother Lime wrote:
I-g-n-o-r-e

I had one teacher who went crazy from it. She gave him keys etc…
As soon as he left her class it stopped being an issue- because we just ignored it.
During that year we sprayed a numbing spray…


What do you mean you sprayed a numbing spray?
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amother
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Post Mon, May 20 2024, 7:44 am
amother OP wrote:
What do you mean you sprayed a numbing spray?

Dermoplast
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amother
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Post Mon, May 20 2024, 7:53 am
amother Lime wrote:
Dermoplast


But youre saying it didn't help?
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:41 pm
Bump
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 9:44 pm
My DS did this all the time from about when he was 3 until 4. To the point where his morah complained about it. I was so embarrassed.
He is now closer to 5 and rarely if ever does this anymore. Bh! I used to just remind him we don't touch when we are outside.
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 10:11 pm
My 4 year old does it too all the time. Every time he goes to the bathroom his hand immediately goes there. No solution yet though…
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