 |
|
 |
 |
|
|
Forum
-> Fashion and Beauty
-> Sheitels & Tichels
Rosegold22
|
 Mon, Nov 18 2024, 8:54 am
Covering your hair at home is not basic halacha. People love quoting the story of kimchis and her sons, but no one knows the ending:
Tanu Rabanan: Kimchit had seven sons and all of them served as Kohen Godol. The Sages said to her: "What did you do to merit this?" She replied: "The walls of my house never saw the hairs on my head" Replied the Sages: "Many women have done this, but didn't receive your reward."
| |
|
| Back to top |
 0
 7
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 8:58 am
| amother Wine wrote: | | Many are makpid to keep their hair covered all the time in house around other men their children...all the time..it's not just one group of yidden. There are women all over the world that do this .it is considered praise worthy (sekula for sons yiras shamayim) |
Fyi it’s segulah, it has a gimmel which is a g sound. סגולה
| |
|
| Back to top |
1
9
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 9:18 am
| amother Dill wrote: | | Fyi it’s segulah, it has a gimmel which is a g sound. סגולה |
Please tell me you are a language arts teacher in multiple languages
| |
|
| Back to top |
6
0
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 9:27 am
| amother Wine wrote: | | Please tell me you are a language arts teacher in multiple languages |
You don’t have to be a language arts teacher to correct someone’s spelling. No need to be so snarky.
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
13
|
Notsobusy
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 9:49 am
| amother Bergamot wrote: | True.
But I thought like litivishe /yeshivish cover at night as well. |
I'm litvish. My kalla teacher said that I have to keep my hair covered at all times when I'm a nidda. I had a hard time with it so I asked my rav and he said it's not necessary. I almost always cover my hair in the house since my kids got old enough to run in and out with friends. But I don't keep it covered when I'm sleeping.
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
1
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 9:53 am
| amother Lemon wrote: | | If you have nothing with judaism why are you on this forum at all? Do you eat kosher? |
Are you crazy?? Who are you to decide that I have nothing with judaism??? I possibly have a lot more with judaism then you have.
Why would mine and husbands choice of how we sleep have anything to do with how Jewish we are?? Some people really need to get their heads checked.
| |
|
| Back to top |
2
12
|
↑
shabbatiscoming
↓
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 9:55 am
| amother Bergamot wrote: | True.
But I thought like litivishe /yeshivish cover at night as well. | You learn something new every day 
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
1
|
↑
shabbatiscoming
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 9:58 am
| amother Wine wrote: | | Please tell me you are a language arts teacher in multiple languages | Why the need to be snarky? She was just correcting your spelling. Or telling you the actual word. Why is that a problem. She did it in an ok way too.
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
5
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 10:04 am
Not that I need to respond to this but I know that theres a extreme type chassidish (such as yourself) that thinks that anyone who is not like them is modern or not real chassidish. This stems from being extremely narrow minded
Guess what, my husband wears a shtreimel and bekesha and my kids go to heimish/chassidish schools and we have chassidish minhagim.
We did not grow up in Williamsburg, Monroe or bp and we have the ability to see all type of chassidim as equally good people. Certainly not the ones that attack people and say they have nothing to do with judaism because they sleep naked. It's actually something dh and I enjoy and I don't take the attack personally but rather think that the ones who rudely attacked me should go do some soul searching on their own judaism
| |
|
| Back to top |
1
9
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 10:50 am
| amother Daylily wrote: | | This is an extemely harsh response. There's no halacha that you can't sleep naked. Presumably she's under a blanket and nobody is coming into her room besides her husband. Even if she's not under a blanket it's completely halachically ok. |
How many things did you have to presume on behalf of someone else who could have replied that herself if thats really the case (Which in most housholds are not) just for the purpuse of having this post out?
No. You dont need to be nice to people who are not keeping basic and our fundamental halachat. Being nice and kind has his time and place also.
| |
|
| Back to top |
3
0
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 10:54 am
| amother Lemon wrote: | How many things did you have to presume on behalf of someone else who could have replied that herself if thats really the case (Which in most housholds are not) just for the purpuse of having this post out?
No. You dont need to be nice to people who are not keeping basic and our fundamental halachat. Being nice and kind has his time and place also. |
Did you know that there are whole simanim in the shulchan aruch about sleeping and saying krias shma with the assumption that entire families slept totally n*ked in one room, maybe on mattresses, maybe on straw mats, maybe all on the floor together.
Possibly with extended family.
Also while the wife was nidda.
It's not something I do, but it's quite a stretch to state that sleeping in a bed with ones spouse is Assur because maybe a kid may walk in.
Shulcha aruch does not seem to label it Assur, rather clarifies how a family should go about sleeping, saying shma at night, saying shma in the morning.
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
10
|
|
amother
Blush
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 10:55 am
| amother Lemon wrote: | How many things did you have to presume on behalf of someone else who could have replied that herself if thats really the case (Which in most housholds are not) just for the purpuse of having this post out?
No. You dont need to be nice to people who are not keeping basic and our fundamental halachat. Being nice and kind has his time and place also. |
What basic halacha was she not keeping? Sleeping naked? 
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
7
|
↑
Ema of 5
↓
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 10:57 am
| amother Lemon wrote: | How many things did you have to presume on behalf of someone else who could have replied that herself if thats really the case (Which in most housholds are not) just for the purpuse of having this post out?
No. You dont need to be nice to people who are not keeping basic and our fundamental halachat. Being nice and kind has his time and place also. |
What basic Halacha is she not keeping? There is a Halacha that one must have clothing on when sleeping? There is a Halacha that a woman must cover her hair 24 hours a day?
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
5
|
kenz
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 10:58 am
| Notsobusy wrote: | | I'm litvish. My kalla teacher said that I have to keep my hair covered at all times when I'm a nidda. I had a hard time with it so I asked my rav and he said it's not necessary. I almost always cover my hair in the house since my kids got old enough to run in and out with friends. But I don't keep it covered when I'm sleeping. |
Same.
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
0
|
↑
Ruchel
↓
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 11:07 am
| amother Crimson wrote: | Did you know that there are whole simanim in the shulchan aruch about sleeping and saying krias shma with the assumption that entire families slept totally n*ked in one room, maybe on mattresses, maybe on straw mats, maybe all on the floor together.
Possibly with extended family.
Also while the wife was nidda.
|
How do people sleep naked with adult extended family present?
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
1
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 11:08 am
| amother Lemon wrote: | Go back to her original post and read what she says and more importently the way she said it. Halachat are not comical and even it dosnt make sense to you it has to be kept.
Im not being paid to work for you at this momant. |
I think it’s a language misunderstanding. She’s saying it would be funny to have her head covered while the rest of her is not. How is that basic halacha? You can sleep and walk around your room naked and no hair covering. It’s a chumrah to be covered in your bedroom, both body and hair.
| |
|
| Back to top |
1
5
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 11:08 am
| amother Lemon wrote: | Go back to her original post and read what she says and more importently the way she said it. Halachat are not comical and even it dosnt make sense to you it has to be kept.
Im not being paid to work for you at this momant. |
Maybe you do back to my original post! Really no need to reply to these rude and ignorant people but there is absolutely nothing wrong halachically with the way we sleep but there is 100 % something wrong with you playing mashgiach when you seem to know little about halacha.
Oh and ofcoarse not much about bein Adam lachavero either
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
5
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 11:09 am
| amother Bergamot wrote: | True.
But I thought like litivishe /yeshivish cover at night as well. |
They do.
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
0
|
amother
|
Mon, Nov 18 2024, 11:10 am
| Ruchel wrote: | | How do people sleep naked with adult extended family present? |
They hung things to make private corners for themselves. How do you think they had s-x when they lived with multiple generations in one room?
| |
|
| Back to top |
0
2
|
|
Imamother may earn commission when you use our links to make a purchase.
© 2024 Imamother.com - All rights reserved
|  |
 |
|
 |
|
|
