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What’s easier, raising boys or girls?
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26% |
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| Boys |
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43% |
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| Girls when they’re young, boys when they’re teens |
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20% |
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| Boys when they’re young, girls when they’re teens |
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10% |
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amother
OP
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 Yesterday at 7:37 pm
I have a lot of boys and one girl BH. I think I am a hyper-feminine woman. I’ve always been girly, into makeup and emotions and art projects and dolls.
I feel like I’m in the minority here but I think boys are SO much easier. Like not even comparable. Boys are simple. They want hugs and play and dirt. They like excitement and inventions and wild jokes. They’re hysterical and melt when you cuddle them.
My girl is so difficult. Her emotions are so intense and different. A boy will wail and hit, but a girl sulks and gives the stink eye. A boy will been affectionate. My girl is so particular. Things bother her, she’s opinionated, she’s stubborn. She’s also beautiful and adorable and smart and amazing. I love dressing her and talking about girl things. But she is SO SO SO much harder.
My opinion: 1 girl = the work of 10 boys.
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amother
Taupe
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Yesterday at 7:42 pm
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I fully agree but I suspect it has more to do with the child's temperament than gender.
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amother
Strawberry
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Yesterday at 7:43 pm
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Hashem gives us some easier, some not. There is no one size fits all.
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amother
Butterscotch
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Yesterday at 7:44 pm
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Weird. I'd rather take all 6 of my girls out than take my two boys lol. I think it totally depends on the individual child and not the gender. At the moment I have 3 teenage girls and my teenage son is more work than the three of them combined.
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giftedmom
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Yesterday at 7:44 pm
Boys may be simple but they are simply destructive and LOUD when they are not constantly occupied. It’s exhausting.
I don’t care about sulking or stink eye lol it’s a lot quieter and easier on my senses.
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Simple1
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Yesterday at 7:51 pm
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It can be challenging to raise a child who’s the only of that gender - so it could be that. And a lot has to do with temperament. Also she may be going the a stage and hopefully will outgrow her difficulty.
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amother
Begonia
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Yesterday at 7:52 pm
The challenges are just different.
I have one of each but they’re still little so it’s hard to know. I didn’t vote.
However, at this stage, my daughter is harder. She’s more stubborn and whiny and jealous.
My son is wild and out of control but he gets over things quickly and doesn’t trigger me as much.
I also think temperament, age and parents’ personality play a massive role in how we feel about our children, more than their gender.
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amother
Foxglove
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Yesterday at 7:54 pm
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I’ll take the boyish rough and tumble behavior over a girls whining and cattiness any day!
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amother
SandyBrown
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Yesterday at 7:58 pm
Agree with OP.
So what if boys are destructive?- just make sure you don't own anything you don't want destroyed. Problem solved. The end.
With girls, the drama is never ending. Their bff from yesterday is now their enemy only to go back and forth again 10 times in the next 2 days. The clothes, the accessories, the hair, the TIGHTS! - don't get me started. The jealousy between sisters is not comparable to boys! The cat fights!
Much harder to entertain them. Boys- just give them a large piece of grass and a ball and they are good for a few hours, all ages. Girls- the coloring all day stage only lasts so long...
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amother
Nasturtium
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Yesterday at 8:07 pm
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My one girl is easier than all my boys separately or put together. And she is a teen and they aren't. I think it's temperament not gender.
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amother
Firebrick
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Yesterday at 8:11 pm
I have 2 and 2. My most stubborn one with the most angsty temperament is my older son.
He’s a lot like my husband.
His father is a Dr and gives my in-laws endless Nachas. So I guess sometimes the difficult personalities can be channeled for good…
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