Lakewood. Boys cheder

yseh

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 5:51 pm

Hi, would appreciate a clear understanding_Is darchei avoseine for people that didn’t get into bais avrohom or is it the preferred choice for many?

amother

Acacia ↓

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 7:36 pm

Bais avraham is more torahdig then darchai. Less flaunting-rich, possibly slightly less chassidish then masoros avos. More chassidish then stolin in a way. Less old school then both majors avos and bais avrahm.

amother

↑ Oak ↓

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 7:42 pm

amother Acacia wrote:

I don't agree that its less torahdig at all than Bais Avrohom. It's just less chassidish. People that don't speak to their boys exclusively in yiddish feel more comfortable in Darchai avosainu.

amother

Poinsettia

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 8:25 pm

It’s more likely people who didn’t get into Stolin.

amother

Tangerine

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 8:31 pm

I know it's a first choice for many people

amother

↑ Acacia

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 8:45 pm

amother Poinsettia wrote:

It’s more likely people who didn’t get into Stolin.

Don't agree. Stolin is stolin. Even though it's not only stolin that send there. Not everyone want their kid in stolin they have their own havarah. There own sets of rules.

It's a solid yeshivah why wouldn't it be people first choice.?

cutewife

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 8:54 pm

Stolin boys cheer is not at all just stolin. It's like a 40 60 ratio.... it's an amazing place

amother

↑ Oak ↓

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 10:02 pm

Our choices were between Darchai Avosainu, Bais Avrohom and Damesek Eliezer. We needed to decide how chassidish we felt comfortable with. Stolin is a very different crowd and chinuch.

amother

Burgundy ↓

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 10:16 pm

So where do boys that don't get into bais avrohom go?

amother

↑ Burgundy

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 10:17 pm

Between BAis Avrohom and Darchei which boys end up going to better high schools?

amother

Lightyellow

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 10:21 pm

amother Oak wrote:

Our choices were between Darchai Avosainu, Bais Avrohom and Damesek Eliezer. We needed to decide how chassidish we felt comfortable with. Stolin is a very different crowd and chinuch.

I feel very differently, there are many families interchangeable with Darchai Avosainu and Stolin. In fact, many apply to most places.

amother

Diamond ↓

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 10:27 pm

amother Poinsettia wrote:

It’s more likely people who didn’t get into Stolin.

not at all. DA is wayy better than stolin, hands down, the way its run and the parent body.
BA is more old school , old fashioned run, older rebbeim, the parent body is nice, very similar to Darchei...

weinberg35 ↓

Wed, Jun 19 2024, 10:49 pm

Darchei and Bais Avrahm have almost no similarities..most people that don’t get into Bais Abraham try masores Avos..the crowds are similar in these 2

amother

RosePink ↓

Thu, Jun 20 2024, 12:01 am

Mosores Avos & Darchei vs Yesodei Hatorah which is more Chassidish?

↑ weinberg35 ↓

Thu, Jun 20 2024, 3:02 am

Yesodei Hatorah is more cool but chasidish..all boys wear peyos down…the other 2 are a big mix,

amother

↑ RosePink

Thu, Jun 20 2024, 4:29 am

weinberg35 wrote:

Yesodei Hatorah is more cool but chasidish..all boys wear peyos down…the other 2 are a big mix,

Which one has stricter rules?

↑ weinberg35 ↓

Thu, Jun 20 2024, 6:28 am

All Chederim have rules ..all pretty much the same

↑ weinberg35 ↓

Thu, Jun 20 2024, 6:43 am

Bais Avraham and Damesek Eliezer are really not the same type at all ..

amother

↑ Oak

Thu, Jun 20 2024, 8:26 am

These days BA has more of a crossover w skver and rachmistrivk