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amother
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 Mon, Nov 11 2024, 9:55 pm
| amother Lily wrote: | | I'm satmar, only 1 classmate had a continental wedding. It's for the higher end, definitely not the norm. |
Dare I ask what a continental wedding is? Lol
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amother
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Mon, Nov 11 2024, 9:56 pm
| amother Lily wrote: | | I'm satmar, only 1 classmate had a continental wedding. It's for the higher end, definitely not the norm. |
Agree. More than half of a class in the old satmer school in Williamsburg gets married in Pardes, which is around 5k per side. The new satmar just opened their new hall, which costs 13k for both sides together and it includes flowers, photographer, singer, musician and badchan.
70-100k is definitely more than the average cost for a chasuna in Williamsburg
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amother
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Mon, Nov 11 2024, 10:56 pm
| First Lady wrote: | You're certainly not blonde or red  |
I'm a 12/8, red'ish and never paid more than $1000 for my gorgeous sheitels.
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cnc
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Mon, Nov 11 2024, 11:03 pm
| amother Electricblue wrote: | | I'm a 12/8, red'ish and never paid more than $1000 for my gorgeous sheitels. |
Human hair? What company?
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GOODMOM
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 12:47 am
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Someone mentioned 2k for makeup and hair. I married off a few kids bh and never spent that much on the above. Hair for kallah was $100. The girls were $50 each. Makeup was like $90 per person.
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amother
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 1:13 am
Bp normal balbatish
Married off 2 children 50/50 both sides
$120k Wedding in eminence
$80k wedding in chynka
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amother
Clover
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 1:31 am
| amother Ecru wrote: | Bp normal balbatish
Married off 2 children 50/50 both sides
$120k Wedding in eminence
$80k wedding in chynka |
This for chasuna night?
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amother
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 2:34 am
| amother Lemonchiffon wrote: | Thank you for sharing. This highlights the insanity of it all. Why on earth do two young adults just starting out in life need $20k worth of jewelry and $10k worth of silver.
Why do they need furniture for $30k in their tiny starter apartment?
That in itself is $60k right there!!! I won't even touch upon the others. It's beyond insane to have such societal expectations, even more so now when so many are struggling immensely with finances.
It's beyond insane. It's sickening. |
It's not everywhere
In England theres no furniture sets given
I gave a watch and becher
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amother
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 2:45 am
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Litvish. $140k for 250 people and about the same for about 400 for next child. Furniture not included (will furnish using nice family hand me downs. Ring was not included.
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amother
Cobalt
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 2:59 am
| amother Holly wrote: | 80-100,000$
No time to do the breakdown now. |
Same but in ₪
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amother
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 3:02 am
I am Satmar Monroe.
The chassunah night was $3500, each side, all inclusive.
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Bnei Berak 10
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 3:11 am
| amother Lily wrote: | | I'm satmar, only 1 classmate had a continental wedding. It's for the higher end, definitely not the norm. |
What on earth is a continental wedding?
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amother
Lilac
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 3:16 am
Continental is a wedding hall (עולם) in Williamsburg. It’s considered to be high end.
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Bnei Berak 10
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 3:21 am
| amother Mocha wrote: | Also 30k on furniture is kinda a funny joke if your on yad shniah of similar and you see young couples posting their bedroom sets with like 8 pieces that’s the parents from spent 10k on and no one even wants it for $1500..
don’t spoil young kids. They don’t know what they want |
This is such a sad scenario.
Smart parents buy second hand.
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amother
Nemesia
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 3:33 am
| amother Lemonchiffon wrote: | Thank you for sharing. This highlights the insanity of it all. Why on earth do two young adults just starting out in life need $20k worth of jewelry and $10k worth of silver.
Why do they need furniture for $30k in their tiny starter apartment?
That in itself is $60k right there!!! I won't even touch upon the others. It's beyond insane to have such societal expectations, even more so now when so many are struggling immensely with finances.
It's beyond insane. It's sickening. |
This exactly. You can have furniture for an entire apartment for 5-6k. Linens, appliances etc for max 3 k. Lets say you wanna splurge and get top brand washing machine, dryer, dishwasher Miele..makes sense because it should last. Fine 5k.
If ppl can afford then yes obviously they can splurge, furniture will last a long time. But if you can't afford, then you can't. So many people in Israel living in poverty, raising lots of children in tiny apartments and hardly have money for food. I dont think spoiling newlyweds with unnecessary luxuries is the way to go.
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amother
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 3:39 am
| amother Chocolate wrote: | I am Satmar Monroe.
The chassunah night was $3500, each side, all inclusive. |
Sensible! How many people did you have at the dinner? It sounds very very cheap. We can't make a bar mitzvah for under 6-10k in England. Well technically people do but they cater it themselves then.
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Bnei Berak 10
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 3:48 am
| amother Nemesia wrote: | This exactly. You can have furniture for an entire apartment for 5-6k. Linens, appliances etc for max 3 k. Lets say you wanna splurge and get top brand washing machine, dryer, dishwasher Miele..makes sense because it should last. Fine 5k.
If ppl can afford then yes obviously they can splurge, furniture will last a long time. But if you can't afford, then you can't. So many people in Israel living in poverty, raising lots of children in tiny apartments and hardly have money for food. I dont think spoiling newlyweds with unnecessary luxuries is the way to go. |
Do newlyweds really need a dishwasher?
And three or four wigs? How many heads does she have?
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amother
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Tue, Nov 12 2024, 12:15 pm
So you mean that when you say a 55k wedding it's really 110k wedding? Are the other prices given also just one side?
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