Bullying in yeshivah

↑ PinkFridge ↓

Today at 9:41 am

Sewsew_mom wrote:

You're doing the right thing.
And also he's telling you why he doesn't share with you things.. Think about it.

OK, she makes big deals of things. She needs to tone it down. But right now, this is something that DOES need to be made a deal of. She can tell him, I hear you and I'm going to work on it. Try to trust me when I do act on it.

↑ PinkFridge

Today at 9:41 am

amother Marigold wrote:

It’s not on her. Many kids are people pleasers and only want to make their parents happy, not because they have a bad reaction they just don’t want to talk about unpleasant things. It’s a personality.

Good point. But I think what I just said can still be helpful.

↑ Sewsew_mom

Today at 9:43 am

PinkFridge wrote:

Never a need to make a scene in front of a child and react crazy.
Yes. It's so important to be handled appropriately and taken care of. I don't even know where anyone got the message that I said it's an overreaction and not to be taken seriously. It absolutely is serious. And also this child doesn't feel safe sharing something so huge. That's the part I brought up on the side.