I'm making my 1st Bar Mitzvah in a month. My husband's siblings are coming in Thursday night with all their kids All of them are in differenthouses. . I don't have a big house to begin with and I'm nervous on hosting people with kids all day Friday when I would have a million things to do. His siblings don't clean after themselves as it is...is it rude if we tell them to send for themselves ob Friday for breakfast and lunch so I can have a calmer Friday?
I'm making my 1st Bar Mitzvah in a month. My husband's siblings are coming in Thursday night with all their kids All of them are in differenthouses. . I don't have a big house to begin with and I'm nervous on hosting people with kids all day Friday when I would have a million things to do. His siblings don't clean after themselves as it is...is it rude if we tell them to send for themselves ob Friday for breakfast and lunch so I can have a calmer Friday?
Not rude at all imo. Or else splurge a bit and have everyone eat out of the house.
