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amother
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Post Wed, Sep 25 2024, 2:55 pm
DD11 is struggling with serious anger issues. She said she wants to kill everyone when she feels angry. Parenting her is severely challenging. I am getting guidance but I feel that she needs to have someone to speak to but she adamantly refuses. She sees it as a sign of failure if she 'needs help'. She keeps insisting she can improve on her own but it's not happening. She's losing friends over this behavior and I don't know how what to do.

What have others done in such situations?
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amother
Wisteria


 

Post Wed, Sep 25 2024, 2:56 pm
There are self-help books for kids. Will she read one with you?

"What to do when your temper flares" has a lot of regulation ideas.
https://www.amazon.com/What-Wh.....01345
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amother
Latte


 

Post Wed, Sep 25 2024, 3:05 pm
Provide her with some tools and self help books. Give her a timeline where you will both monitor to see if she can do this on her own. Very possible that she will be able to if she is a very determined person. If it doesn't work, you can show her how the time has passed and maybe it's time for a third person to come in to see how she can help herself. Hugs..
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amother
Tealblue


 

Post Wed, Sep 25 2024, 10:32 pm
Constitutional homeopathy and LDN. She doesn't know what it's for. Gamechangers.
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amother
Snapdragon


 

Post Thu, Sep 26 2024, 5:39 pm
Bumping because my teen really needs therapy too but doesn’t want to share her feelings with a stranger who is getting paid to listen.

She doesn’t want to do a workbook too.
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