Teachers and Rebbeim allow the students to drink

amother

OP ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:19 am

I wish all teachers and Rebbeim allowed students to be able to drink water when they want. It’s so frustrating when it becomes a control thing that they don’t allow it only by a break. Allowing a student to inconspicuously drink some water won’t disturb your class and will create a safer and happier environment.
How can we promote change in our schools and chederim?

amother

Strawberry

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:22 am

I tell my students they’re allowed to drink water as long as I’m not dealing with water spills and clanging water bottles all day long. If there’s too many fallen water bottles we may have to change the rules. I’ve never had a problem.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:25 am

That’s great that you allow it. In general the more educated and progressive a teacher or Rebbi is the more they allow this. It’s the ones stuck in an old fashioned mindset that unfortunately don’t allow.

amother

Pansy

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:32 am

You should edit your title to “don’t allow them to drink”

Unless you meant your title as clickbait

amother

Chestnut

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:36 am

amother Pansy wrote:

You should edit your title to “don’t allow them to drink”

Unless you meant your title as clickbait

She meant it as a command, even though I'm not sure which rebbeim are reading this site...
(Like, "Teachers and Rebbeim, allow the students to drink!")

Also, the OP must be new on this site. We have had countless threads about this very topic in the past...

Elfrida

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:38 am

When I read it, I was wondering whether she meant they were allowing the students to drink alcohol!

Quote:

Also, the OP must be new on this site. We have had countless threads about this very topic in the past...

Some topics are perennials, coming up every few months.

seeker

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:50 am

amother OP wrote:

I've found many experienced mothers allow it because they know they'd want their daughters to be comfortable.

Bh this seems to be much less of an issue than when I was in school. Maybe just among my kids?!

amother

Midnight ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:53 am

My school doesn’t allow water bottles. I have tried numerous times to not enforce that rule and got a lot of pushback . I tried.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:57 am

amother Chestnut wrote:

Thanks for explaining.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:57 am

seeker wrote:

You send your kids to the right schools I guess. You’re lucky.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 5:58 am

amother Midnight wrote:

My school doesn’t allow water bottles. I have tried numerous times to not enforce that rule and got a lot of pushback . I tried.

So frustrating. What can we do to change the tide?

amother

↑ Midnight ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 6:02 am

amother OP wrote:

So frustrating. What can we do to change the tide?

Many teachers have spoken up against it, we can’t change the rules
I do let the kids get drinks through out the day so no one is dehydrating

amother

↑ OP ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 6:04 am

amother Midnight wrote:

Many teachers have spoken up against it, we can’t change the rules
I do let the kids get drinks through out the day so no one is dehydrating

Thats great that you tried as a teacher, you must be a very nice teacher.
Who is making up these rules and most importantly how can we get them to change these rules?

amother

Lotus

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 6:19 am

yup, school rule.
kids just have to get used to taking drink at breaks..
personally, I don't mind just water (not eating). but I have to follow school policy

essie14

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 6:43 am

Our school requires every child to have a closed water bottle at their desk.
As far as I know there aren't issues with spills. DD drinks whenever she's thirsty.
It's pretty hot here for at least half of the school year.

Molly Weasley

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 11:28 am

I think it depends on the age. With younger children, say third graders, allowing them to drink water increases the number of bathroom breaks needed.
Older children can regulate themselves better, but the need to use the BR is still there.

Bathroom breaks are especially disruptive to class flow

amother

DarkViolet

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 11:35 am

went to public school
was never eating and drinking during class in class
we never had a problem with it

amother

Cerulean

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 11:36 am

Molly Weasley wrote:

Agreed! The kids being human is SO annoying.

(sorry, know it's not your fault, this just bothers me every time. yes they'll need the bathroom. yes it's mildly disruptive. but that's part of being a person with physical needs.)

deena19k

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 11:39 am

Interesting to read. Here in Israel the kids have to bring a water bottle for their desk and the teachers constantly remind them to drink. And it doesnt seem to be disruptive at all.

amother

Gardenia ↓

Thu, Sep 05 2024, 11:44 am

Molly Weasley wrote:

You mean older kids can will themselves into a state of perpetual mild dehydration.
Or uti risk.

My kids don't drink during breaks either because then they'll need the bathroom in class.