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amother
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theoneandonly
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Thu, Feb 15 2024, 5:25 pm
amother Fern wrote: | AFAIK a mohel doesn't actually charge, because it's a Mitzva and one doesn't take $$ for a Mitzva. But it's proper to give in return, how else is he supposed to have parnassa. Hence the "going rate". |
Yes this. A mohel does not (or is not supposed to) charge, but you are supposed to give him $ as a thank you.
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jd1212
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Thu, Feb 15 2024, 7:35 pm
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Said their going rate was $800-$1200, said portion goes to tzedakah - maybe 1/3
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 6:41 am
Bump. I live in lakewood what's the going rate
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 7:10 am
Our Mohel is a very chashuv and experienced Mohel. He is very Erlich and won't accept payment.
He does around 3 a day and is highly sought after. He does the bris the old fashioned way which is less painful for the baby but more crying during the actual bris which we prefer eventhough it makes people uncomfortable.
Usually nowadays, the prep is done before the bris which is very uncomfortable for the baby but there is less crying at the actual bris.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 7:44 am
amother Rainbow wrote: | Our Mohel is a very chashuv and experienced Mohel. He is very Erlich and won't accept payment.
He does around 3 a day and is highly sought after. He does the bris the old fashioned way which is less painful for the baby but more crying during the actual bris which we prefer eventhough it makes people uncomfortable.
Usually nowadays, the prep is done before the bris which is very uncomfortable for the baby but there is less crying at the actual bris. |
Heller ?
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simcha12plus
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 8:10 am
we paid $500 for the person who said we don’t have to pay, and $800 for the Mohel who gave a range
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 8:34 am
amother Honey wrote: | Bump. I live in lakewood what's the going rate |
$400-$600
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Ruchel
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:01 am
Depends if he skips work for this like a doctor
Some you pay fame
Some several visits
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:04 am
Ruchel wrote: | Depends if he skips work for this like a doctor
Some you pay fame
Some several visits |
Not sure exactly what you meant to say, but no, it’s a job. This is how a mohel earns a parnassa. I’ve made 3 brisses, I think the last one we paid around $750 for the mohel. Before that prob around $500
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:06 am
amother Thistle wrote: | Not sure exactly what you meant to say, but no, it’s a job. This is how a mohel earns a parnassa. I’ve made 3 brisses, I think the last one we paid around $750 for the mohel. Before that prob around $500 |
I meant just that.
Some are doctors and skip work.
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amother
Mint
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:06 am
amother Fern wrote: | AFAIK a mohel doesn't actually charge, because it's a Mitzva and one doesn't take $$ for a Mitzva. But it's proper to give in return, how else is he supposed to have parnassa. Hence the "going rate". |
Also free in crown heights. This specific mohel will absolutely not take money mo matter how hard you offer, he's not trying to be nice and hoping you insists. and he's a wonderful mohel
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amother
Watermelon
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:06 am
We always used Rabbi Romi Cohen zt’l. He wouldn’t take payments. We sent a bouquet of flowers for shabbos to his house as a thank you.
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:22 am
Old joke is that he gets to keep the tips
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:22 am
I was thinking that while reading the thread. 😂😭🫢
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amother
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:33 am
Ruchel wrote: | I meant just that.
Some are doctors and skip work. |
That’s on them to skip work. What I was saying is it makes no difference. You pay any mohel, because it’s a parnassah. I know only one mohel that’s a dr. It’s very uncommon anyway
And don’t know what you mean by fame?
Also, most people make brissim before work so no one has to skip work…
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Ruchel
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Wed, Jul 31 2024, 9:38 am
amother Thistle wrote: | That’s on them to skip work. What I was saying is it makes no difference. You pay any mohel, because it’s a parnassah. I know only one mohel that’s a dr. It’s very uncommon anyway
And don’t know what you mean by fame?
Also, most people make brissim before work so no one has to skip work… |
You pay the name if you want a star. Lol
There are many doctors.
Many are in the morning but not so early also other visits aren't so early.
That's why they're more expensive
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nolacola
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Mon, Aug 05 2024, 5:56 pm
$500 Lakewood 3 years ago
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