ISO Pool in Rockland for a couple

amother

OP ↓

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 12:32 am

We are a chassidish couple looking to rent a private pool in the Rockland area for a few daytime hours. I know there's a complete listing in Community Connection, but we want to be comfortable swimming as a couple and there's no information about the privacy of the pools.

Any suggestions?

amother

↑ OP ↓

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 12:38 am

ramateshkolmom wrote:

PM me

Uh oh, can't do that, DH would be mortified if I used my sn for this particular inquiry...

↑ ramateshkolmom

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 12:42 am

I know a few pools and they wouldn’t want it to be posted here. I’m sorry. You also have a very reasonable request, I’m not sure why you’re embarrassed!

amother

↑ OP ↓

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 12:47 am

ramateshkolmom wrote:

I know a few pools and they wouldn’t want it to be posted here. I’m sorry. You also have a very reasonable request, I’m not sure why you’re embarrassed!

If they are advertised, I don't see the problem with posting it here, just free advertising.

There are about 30 pools advertised in the CC, I need someone to vouch for those pools.

amother

Gray

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 7:19 am

Not sure exactly what you mean by "as a couple", but you should always assume when you swim outdoors that you can be seen. If you get one with a lot of privacy, you can decide to not wear a cover up, but most home pools have some overlook from windows of other houses, and if not, from the house it belongs to. And these days there are drones, etc. I personally would not do or wear anything I wouldn't do or wear in front of other women, or be ok if they accidentally saw.

amother

↑ Oatmeal ↓

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 8:05 am

amother Gray wrote:

The one ive gone to has no windows overlooking from anywhere. I've never been to such a private pool before

amother

Daffodil ↓

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 9:16 am

OP, whatever type of pool you rent, please don't get heated with your husband or have s-x at the pool! Assume that there are cameras around.
(Yes, women on here have done that.)

amother

↑ Daffodil

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 9:16 am

amother Oatmeal wrote:

The one ive gone to has no windows overlooking from anywhere. I've never been to such a private pool before

Assume that all pools have cameras around.

amother

↑ OP ↓

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 10:03 am

amother Daffodil wrote:

OP, whatever type of pool you rent, please don't get heated with your husband or have s-x at the pool! Assume that there are cameras around.
(Yes, women on here have done that.)

We are a mature couple, nearing the 50's...we hung out a lot at the pool a lot in NMB villas and would love to get the vibe here. When I meant private, I expect of course full mechitza and no windows. I was aiming more for where the pool is located in which yenta area, which yenta owns the pool, etc. We are looking for a discreet professional pool owner who reacts in a decent manner when a chassis couple shows up at their pool. Better yet, a humanness entry. One where I submit a cc by phone, get access code to pool lock, no back to back patrons so we don't meet swimmers going in and out, total anonymous privacy.

amother

↑ Oatmeal

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 10:26 am

amother OP wrote:

I think you're looking for a unicorn, but good luck

amother

↑ OP

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 10:42 am

amother Oatmeal wrote:

I think you're looking for a unicorn, but good luck

Please don't discourage me, please. If you own a private pool in Monsey area, or can vouch for one you've been to, please share. If I could get at least half of my expectations, well, I'll be super grateful.

amother

Amber

Mon, Jul 08 2024, 10:46 am

amother OP wrote:

Did you try the one the poster recommended above?

ahuvasrob

Wed, Jul 10 2024, 3:20 am

amother Daffodil wrote:

OP, whatever type of pool you rent, please don't get heated with your husband or have s-x at the pool! Assume that there are cameras around.
(Yes, women on here have done that.)

Are you serious?!

amother

Teal

Wed, Jul 10 2024, 4:45 am

Ttly not a unicorn
Ive gone to pools like this
Completely private
And you leave $ in an envelope by the pool

I live in lkwd though sorry
Try swimply
Definitely should have something for you