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amother
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 Sun, Jun 23 2024, 5:44 pm
I am thinking weddings, engagement parties, bar and bat mitswot, things like that.
We are both students so we don't have a huge budget so we usually give a multitude of 18, such as 36/81 dollars or 180 NIS but I have the feeling that we are being judged for not giving abundantly.
Both in Israel and abroad, what is the standard?
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amother
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Sun, Jun 23 2024, 5:45 pm
Youll get such different answers. Im sefardi and my friends give so much (enough to cover their plate). My husband is unemployed and I dont make so much due to medical expenses. I went to a wedding and Im going into debt giving a wedding gift. I feel cheap I am getting her 2 serving bowls and serving utensils from crate and barrel and spending $100. Months where I have money I give a cheque of at least $180 but even thats considered low for my friend group
Were in our 20s, yeshivish
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