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amother
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 Fri, Mar 29 2024, 11:57 am
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I need to take a parenting course. I need help. Wondering if anyone took either of them, how would you describe it and what's the difference between them. Can't decide with which one to go for.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 1:07 pm
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I took r taub. Believe its very different approaches.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 1:26 pm
R’taub is a rabbi with a ton of learning and hands on experience under his belt.
Blimi heller is a very nice lady who teaches what she feels in heart and how she experiences parenting (two girls).
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amother
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 1:29 pm
I’d take R Taub first.
He has a tremendous amount of understanding the neshama and our purpose in this world and how to prioritize what.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 3:28 pm
| champagne wrote: | Something about the way you wrote this really rubbed me the wrong way. “A nice lady” is a euphemism when people want to insinuate that, because she’s not a man with a rabbinic ordination, she’s somehow not blessed with a talent for understanding children and giving excellent parenting advice.
I follow R’ Taub pretty religiously and I really look up to him — but I hate to break it to you, he’s also teaching what he “feels in his heart.” Blimi Heller has a ton of experience the same way the rabbi does.
I happen to think I’d also take his course but not because he’s not “a nice lady” — it’s because I like his advice overall so I already know it’s aligned with me and my views. |
The fact is a rabbi by definition deals with a lot more than a regular lady who just happens to preach about parenting. And she really is nice.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 4:34 pm
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Every single thing r taub says in his course has a mekor from the torah.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 4:35 pm
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Blimie Hellers course is short and to the point. Teaches you a new way to connect and communicate. It changed my life BH. I for sure wasn't up for something complicated and couldn't believe the impact her short course had on my relationship with my kids BH.
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cupcake123
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 4:36 pm
They're probably both fantastic. Why put down one to lift up another ?
I personally only know about blimie bec I follow her status and what she says really resonates. I'm sure Rabbi Taub is amazing also !
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amother
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 4:37 pm
| amother Oleander wrote: | | Blimie Hellers course is short and to the point. Teaches you a new way to connect and communicate. It changed my life BH. I for sure wasn't up for something complicated and couldn't believe the impact her short course had on my relationship with my kids BH. |
Correct I think they have different purposes.
OP what’s your main two parenting struggles?
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#BestBubby
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 5:07 pm
Try to find whose philosophy you agree with.
How does r Taub sat to handle defiance?
How does blimi heller say to handle defiance?
Pick the method you agree with.
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amother
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Fri, Mar 29 2024, 5:46 pm
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I love blimie hellers stuff, I have been following her on Instagram for a few years now. I do think though that Rabbi Taubs course is a more worthwhile investment if you have to choose one. I took it and it gives a clear approach and perspective for parenting with authentic Torah values. I think that after having that foundation then you can take other courses and look at them through the lense that he gives. A lot of parenting advice nowadays isn't aligned with Torah and having a clear perspective helps a lot.
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