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 Sun, Jan 14 2024, 11:49 pm
| amother Forsythia wrote: | She did realize and kept on asking him but he repeatedly brushed her off.
If after 20 years of marriage he couldn't get himself to trust his wife and be open with her, what does that say about him? Was he only good with their relationship when times were good,and then destroys their entire foundation when things got bad? That speaks more about him than the wife. |
It doesn't necessarily say that about him. It MIGHT be saying something about their marriage and him feeling he was valued as a husband only because he was able to provide a high standard of living.
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amother
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Mon, Jan 15 2024, 12:04 am
He is accountable for his actions
Why would people blame the wife?
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amother
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Mon, Jan 15 2024, 11:44 am
| amother Beige wrote: | He is accountable for his actions
Why would people blame the wife? |
Anyone who doesn't understand addiction would blame the wife.
As someone who understands addiction (unfortunatly), the husband seems to have done some great addiction work. This is evident in his narrative as he takes the blame and doesn't blame his wife. If he was still mired in addictive thinking he would be blaming his old boss, his wife, his childhood, the whole world really...everyone but himself.
Such a tragedy he learned this too late to save his marriage.
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