I’m SuperWify and I’ll AYA (ask YOU anything)

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:25 pm

Dev80 wrote:

Well I feel like we don't know enough about the day to day of that time period (what did they wear, what were daughters of the king busy with - chesed, learning, primping?, how were royal matches made, what were the kings soldiers like aside from fighting our enemies, what were the servants like were they Jewish or non jews, what were regular people busy with - jobs, learning, child rearing... Etc etc...) So it would probably also be mostly made up if this book ever came to be (artistic license 😉)

Would still be an amazing read!

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:28 pm

balance wrote:

I'm British and I don't know anyone who goes to Europe for the summer.

Driving in your Previa stuffed with enough kosher food for an army across the boarder to Paris Disney doesn’t count? Or going to Wales or Scotland (ok that’s GB) to a family camp or such? Come on… Who do you know that stays home for the summer holidays? Oh, the horror!!!

chocpretzel ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:28 pm

A bit late in the game but I’m in.

↑ English3

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:29 pm

SuperWify wrote:

No, my dear I’m afraid you misunderstood me. I wouldn’t insinuate that you are anything, but a true British gentlewoman. I was merely asking if you spent any of your summer in Europe, as many of the English are prone to do during the summer month of August. It is most British indeed.

I must humbly apologise for misreading your question TMI

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We went to Romania( Remain here :wink) Thats a very funny English joke the kids say when they stay in London.
For the other British woman asking, Austria, Switzerland, France, and Italy are packed with English people in the holidays.

↑ AmedeoAvogadro ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:29 pm

SuperWify wrote:

Cool cool cooler. And by yourself no less!!

Where in Italy? That’s next on my list.

Some of them were with a friend. Italy - Canazei, Venice, Naples, Rome, Padua

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:29 pm

dena613 wrote:

Ok I'll bite

Just don’t chew with your mouth open. Hehe.

What’s your greatest fear?

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:31 pm

chocpretzel wrote:

A bit late in the game but I’m in.

Never too late….

But I’m running out of questions….

Ok here goes.

How many guys did you date? What was the worst date?

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:32 pm

English3 wrote:

I must humbly apologise for misreading your question TMI

Lol that’s a really funny joke! You got me.

lamplighter ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:34 pm

Ok...superwifey

Ask me anything Smile

↑ dena613 ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:35 pm

SuperWify wrote:

Just don’t chew with your mouth open. Hehe.

What’s your greatest fear?

I HATE when people chew with their mouths open. For real.

I don't know if I have so many fears...

Maybe my fear that chas veshalom something would happen to me and what would happen to my family if I weren't there chas veshalom..
And yes, obviously I've had trauma, but I won't out myself and tell you what it was.

marvinkay

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:36 pm

Hi, what do you want to ask me?!

↑ chocpretzel ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:37 pm

SuperWify wrote:

Never too late….

But I’m running out of questions….

Ok here goes.

How many guys did you date? What was the worst date?

Just my husband! And I’m glad too because I hated going on dates.

My worst date was probably when I spilled some food I was eating during the date. I was mortified but my husband wasn’t fazed.

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:37 pm

AmedeoAvogadro wrote:

Some of them were with a friend. Italy - Canazei, Venice, Naples, Rome, Padua

Very nice!

Up there for me is Santorini, the Amalfi coast, Florence (anyone watched the Medici’s about Lorenzo the Magnificent?) and Venice and Rome obviously.

And Milan. Cuz you know. shopping.

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:39 pm

lamplighter wrote:

Ok...superwifey

Ask me anything Smile

Hiya! Am I correct in assuming you’re a Shlucha?

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:40 pm

dena613 wrote:

If you don’t have too many fears then I envy you. You must be a person of real Emunah.

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:41 pm

nechamala wrote:

Hi, what do you want to ask me?!

I want to ask you whats one thing you absolutely love about yourself?

↑ daredevil

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:44 pm

SuperWify wrote:

Since you asked so nicely, you can, Sheifelah.
How much did your family spend on their esorgim?

Didn't buy yet but dh spends a lot

↑ imthatawesome ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:46 pm

SuperWify wrote:

Yes, dear.

What was the kindest someone ever told you?

Little tough to explain but I’ll try

“What’s the worst the could happen? You won’t have done what you said you’d do, you’ll apologize, everyone will understand, and life will move on”

I have a history of taking on people’s problems. If you complain to me about something, I will take it as a personal cry for help and will bend over backwards to help you out. If you asked me for a favor, I would never say no.
I was asked to make bagels for a family Chanukah party. I obviously didn’t say no even though I was asked pretty last minute and had a lot going on that day. I had extremely bad anxiety at the time which was only exacerbated by an having an unnecessarily large workload.
The bagels had to be ready by a specific time. As the time got closer and closer, my anxiety got worse and worse.
When it was the time that the bagels should have been done I had a complete meltdown since they weren’t ready. I was so hyper focused that they need to be ready by x time that it felt like the world ends once I passed the deadl. I burst into tears and just sank to the floor and probably freaked out my niece and nephew whom I was babysitting. It was a really low moment for mental health wise. I felt that anxiety was my life now and I would never be able to accomplish all the things I used to.
I called my husband, sobbing. He b”h is extremely rational (unlike me) and calmed me down by saying the above statement. It might sound stupid and “duh!” to everyone else but it was mind blowing to me. I got so bogged down by deadlines that I never stopped to think “what’s the worst that could happen?” And realize that the worst case scenario isn’t actually that bad.
It was extremely crucial for me and really helped me learn to deal with my anxiety.
I’ve b”h come so far since.

↑ lamplighter ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:48 pm

SuperWify wrote:

Hiya! Am I correct in assuming you’re a Shlucha?

You are incorrect but I am flattered (I think it's a compliment).
Do you get a second question for being wrong? Very Happy

↑ SuperWify ↓

Thu, Sep 28 2023, 5:56 pm

chocpretzel wrote:

Just my husband! And I’m glad too because I hated going on dates.

My worst date was probably when I spilled some food I was eating during the date. I was mortified but my husband wasn’t fazed.

Well here’s a lucky girl. First guy!

Good man for not being fazed. He’s a keeper!