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chocolate moose
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 9:50 am
A friend broke the plate at a recent simcha, not in a bag, and promptly Hatzolo had to be called because of the bleeding she sustained.
Is there an inyan not to use a bag? It's the first such simcha on either side; could they not have know the "danger" ?
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grin
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 12:39 pm
oy vey! I think it depends on the thickness of the plate. In our case, the plate that was brought was too thick and we had a lot of trouble getting it to break at all. It took 4 tries to get it to split into 2.
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chocolate moose
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 1:11 pm
Somthing like this should be known. she had to go to the hospital for stitches. when she should have been enjoying the simcha.
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lamplighter
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 2:46 pm
it happened to my friends mother at the chassuna, she was rushed to the hospital to get stiches...missed the entire kabolos panim basically
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Hannah!
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 3:06 pm
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TzenaRena
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 3:18 pm
We also do the Tenoyim right before the Kabbolas Ponim. However, at the vort, where a "kabbolas kinyan" is done, a plate is broken as well.
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Hannah!
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 3:32 pm
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TzenaRena
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 3:49 pm
We break a plate at both occasions.
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abismommy
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Wed, Mar 19 2008, 5:12 pm
a bit off-topic, but at my wedding, dh's Rosh Yeshiva was mesader kidushin and he insisted that the plate by tenoyim was wrapped in a tablecloth. it was very thick and the mothers tried, but they had to unwrap it a coulpe of times to make sure that it was still safe but could also be broken. he is known to be very careful in matters like that - to try to make sure that a simcha remains a FULL simcha!
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Ruchel
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Thu, Mar 20 2008, 6:48 am
ours was at our engagement party (not sure about tenyaim/vort, you don't hear these words commonly here), and wrapped in aluminium paper.
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