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amother
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 Thu, Sep 20 2007, 9:25 pm
The fast is over at 7:35 locally. I will be stuck at home with the babies all day. DH won't be home until an hour after. May I break my fast as soon as it is over?
Many will say that I can make havdalah for myself. However, there is no way that a woman by herself can make a full havdalah with a candle and besamim, since it is motzei shabbos?
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Maya
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Thu, Sep 20 2007, 9:37 pm
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Maybe you can go to a neighbor or relative in the area whose husband will be home earlier. I know that I am having a neighbor come to us, since her husband goes out of town for YK.
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Helani
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Thu, Sep 20 2007, 9:45 pm
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I remember asking a shaila and was told to break the fast even before havdalah and not wait for my husband. BUT you should ask yourself.
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Thu, Sep 20 2007, 9:49 pm
| amother wrote: | | However, there is no way that a woman by herself can make a full havdalah with a candle and besamim, since it is motzei shabbos? |
Sorry, but can you explain why? What's the problem to make a full havdolah by yourself? I did plenty of times, with the besomim and with the candle..  
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chocolate moose
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Thu, Sep 20 2007, 9:55 pm
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Make by yourself with grape juice. When your husband comes home, you can hear his havdaleh. I don't htink it's a shaylah at all.
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NotInNJMommy
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Thu, Sep 20 2007, 9:56 pm
it is a shaila whether a woman uses the candle for havdalah.....
I think I remember our rav telling us that we (women) could eat as soon as the fast was over....but maybe that was when I was pg...
worth a shaila!
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stem
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Thu, Sep 20 2007, 9:57 pm
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I was told that I have to make havdala first.
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chanab
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Fri, Sep 21 2007, 6:57 am
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you could make havdala without candles and besamim.
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