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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 3:58 pm
Want to do it but don't want to make a chillul Hashem. Anyone have recommendations?
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:00 pm
I don't know if clairs does it, or any random place in the mall , but I suggest going to check the place out before you actually make an appointment. You don't want to end up somewhere unsanitary or somewhere you don't feel safe.
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:07 pm
amother OP wrote: | Want to do it but don't want to make a chillul Hashem. Anyone have recommendations? |
Why would it be a chillul Hashem if your doing it then your already doing something assur
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:08 pm
amother Pear wrote: | Why would it be a chillul Hashem if your doing it then your already doing something assur |
Why is it assur?
ETA - I think this is what the OP of the thread
" why is everyone so mean these days"( or something like that) had in mind. she asked a question, and is only looking for responses, not someone to tell her if its assur or not. Either you have a suggestion or don't respond.
Im understanding now her frustration that this site turned to bashing people instead of advice.
Im not bashing you, and yes, everyone is entitled to thier opinion, just trying to bring awareness of how this site has changed over the years.
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:11 pm
It's kind of a trashy thing so I don't want people seeing me go in with my tichel and them thinking Jews are just fakers
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:14 pm
amother OP wrote: | It's kind of a trashy thing so I don't want people seeing me go in with my tichel and them thinking Jews are just fakers |
So why are you doing it if it’s trashy?! I’m just trying to understand why a frum person would want such a thing if nobody ever sees it
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Brit in Israel
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:19 pm
amother Pear wrote: | So why are you doing it if it’s trashy?! I’m just trying to understand why a frum person would want such a thing if nobody ever sees it |
Firstly her husband sees.
2nd many women on this site aren't as frum as you and cover hair. Who said op is on your level?
3rd she didn't ask should I get my belly pierced.
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Brit in Israel
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:20 pm
amother OP wrote: | It's kind of a trashy thing so I don't want people seeing me go in with my tichel and them thinking Jews are just fakers |
I don't think non-jews see it as trashy. It's just the same as any other piercings
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singleagain
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:22 pm
I have heard from people who know that you should look into a tattoo/piercing parlor that is good, clean and has good reviews on. I would Google and find some place and then make an appointment and go. If you're having trouble because of your filter or something you can then I would suggest you know going to the public library, something like that wouldn't necessarily be banned there
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amother
Lemonchiffon
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:32 pm
amother Pear wrote: | So why are you doing it if it’s trashy?! I’m just trying to understand why a frum person would want such a thing if nobody ever sees it |
I’m super yeshivish and considering it since it’s something my husband wants
I’m not planning on walking the streets with a crop top but something I would do for dh and myself
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Cadetblue
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:34 pm
Brit in Israel wrote: | I don't think non-jews see it as trashy. It's just the same as any other piercings |
It's always viewed as trashy. The difference is, it's for OP's husband, not the street.
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:34 pm
amother Pear wrote: | So why are you doing it if it’s trashy?! I’m just trying to understand why a frum person would want such a thing if nobody ever sees it |
I want to do it for my husband
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:55 pm
amother OP wrote: | It's kind of a trashy thing so I don't want people seeing me go in with my tichel and them thinking Jews are just fakers |
If you're worried about chillul hashem, then it's the same chillul hashem regardless of where you're getting it done.
But why do you think that it's a chillul hashem??
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:56 pm
A place that does it regularly doesn't think of it as trashy. It's normal for them. Do you hear what I'm saying? They consider it normal and this is what they do all day so they won't twice that you're doing it. It's not a chilly Hashem. As opposed to if you go to a place which is really for earrings they might think into it.
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 4:57 pm
So go for it, no one has to know about it.
Just make sure the place is clean & sanitary.
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 5:04 pm
Anyone know where I can do it though?
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 5:08 pm
VIP bodies in kings plaza. They have closed off rooms. Call in advance and request a woman for religious reasons. They’re used to it
Extremely clean and professional. It’s the place with the gold skull wall
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amother
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 5:27 pm
amother Catmint wrote: | VIP bodies in kings plaza. They have closed off rooms. Call in advance and request a woman for religious reasons. They’re used to it
Extremely clean and professional. It’s the place with the gold skull wall |
Thank you so much very helpful . Does anyone here have experience doing it? Just wondering how the recovery goes
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Cookin4days
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 5:30 pm
So funny I walked by a piercing place today w Dh and joked about getting one
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amother
Feverfew
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Tue, Dec 31 2024, 5:31 pm
Be careful to time it as far away from mikvah as possible because technically you're not supposed to take it out for a few weeks after getting it.
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