If your dd is or was in 6-8 grade since 2020

amother

Today at 9:41 pm

I'm polling mothers who have daughters who are currently in grades 6-12:

What is/was her middle school/ junior high experience like?

Were classes generally under control or out of control?
Was the general atmosphere positive or negative?
What form of discipline or reward was used, if any, or if it was memorable? Do you think it was or wasn't effective?

Please answer poll and then, more importantly, I'd love to hear what it was like for your daughter.

Optione

Today at 9:43 pm

Hi! I'm still new to this age, but your first two options on the pool are identical

amother

Puce

Today at 9:47 pm

Under control, very positive experience. But the school doesn’t tolerate babying them. They don’t let us save them like no bringing hw and lunch left at home, they can deal with the consequences. Eat a cream cheese sandwich and tell the teacher they don’t have it. So they don’t have current day issues of no responsibility and free for all attitude.

amother

Maroon

Today at 10:12 pm

I worked in chassidish, yeshivish and sedated schools and the chutzpah 100% got worse across the board.

It’s extremely difficult to run a classroom and to motivate them to learn

amother

Purple ↓

Today at 10:16 pm

Dd had a terrible combo of a class until fifth. They split them for 6th and the atmosphere is way better now bh. This year for 7th she’s taking her schoolwork more seriously than ever before (and frankly more than I ever did ).

NechaMom

Today at 10:31 pm

amother Maroon wrote:

I worked in chassidish, yeshivish and sedated schools and the chutzpah 100% got worse across the board.

It’s extremely difficult to run a classroom and to motivate them to learn

The sedated schools must've been calm!

amother

Dodgerblue

Today at 10:34 pm

NechaMom wrote:

The sedated schools must've been calm!

trying to figure that one out. did she mean Sephardi?

amother

Plum

Today at 10:35 pm

amother Purple wrote:

I wonder if we send to the same school! Exact same experience.

amother

Royalblue

Today at 10:37 pm

As a hs teacher, my students don't know how to keep their mouths shut Sad

I thought it's a school culture thing.
My daughter is in 12th in another school and I think it depends on the teacher ....

amother

Green ↓

Today at 10:37 pm

From the stories my daughters repeat going on in school it seems like the teachers hardly get to teach and the chutzpah is through the roof. I wonder if it's only my school or the whole generation. I would switch schools if I'd be accepted anywhere. It's very hard to get in anywhere once you already started out somewhere.

amother

↑ Green

Today at 10:38 pm

amother Royalblue wrote:

As a hs teacher, my students don't know how to keep their mouths shut Sad

I thought it's a school culture thing.
My daughter is in 12th in another school and I think it depends on the teacher ....

This is what I mean. Girls talking through the lessons. Definitely wasn't in my day. The worst part is that my daughters think this is the norm.
I'd love a more accurate poll.

amother

Butterscotch

Today at 11:31 pm

In my experience, chutzpah is more tolerated & not addressed seriously enough by the school staff. It's as if they don't expect better from the girls.
Times have really changed.

amother

↑ Purple ↓

Today at 11:35 pm

amother Plum wrote:

I wonder if we send to the same school! Exact same experience.

Then we’re both not supposed to be on here😂

amother

↑ Purple

Today at 11:37 pm

amother Green wrote:

This is what I mean. Girls talking through the lessons. Definitely wasn't in my day. The worst part is that my daughters think this is the norm.
I'd love a more accurate poll.

We definitely did that with some teachers. Talked, slept, popped popcorn, made grilled cheese… I have an entire DVD of these shenanigans. Hope I’m not outing myself.