Blake Lively, do you believe her?

amother

↑ Myrtle ↓

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 9:53 am

amother OP wrote:

Who's the Jew?

Justin is Jewish

amother

↑ Calendula

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 9:56 am

amother DarkGreen wrote:

The quotes I saw were so unsubstantial. Not that they saw or felt something.
But more like I support her bec women should be supported and believed.
They sounded like fluff and support. Not they know anything.

Not what I saw. Very much to the contrary, some of them came out and really elaborated. I also think society LOVES a bad women. It allows them to reinforce all their negative stereotypes and abuse her without guilt.

Blomi being the director, kind of gives him power, making it even bigger that the people of the movie didn’t come out in his support.

Think about it, if her colleagues would come out against her, no one would question her evilness. It’s not like now, it’s her vs him. There wouldn’t be a versus. To me, this is really strong evidence that he is a very shady character.

Besides, dismissing witnesses as being biased towards women and then not believing her allegations because she is a women is truly truly wrong.

If you consider yourself objective, at least say you’ll wait for the court case. Dismissing evidence because they will want to support women shows some negative biases on your end. Not theirs.

amother

Dodgerblue

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 3:06 pm

If she was being harrassed, why didn't she knip it in the bud? Don't continue the acting until you take care of the guy. If the guy is the Boss, walk away and accept the loss. They are millionaires. Then we can believe her.

amother

Dustypink

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 3:18 pm

amother DarkGreen wrote:

Not to mention Blake’s husband is a billionaire. They are powerful people. If anything Justin is the underdog.

amother

Mintgreen

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 4:13 pm

amother OP wrote:

Especially now after an old interview with Armie Hammer surfaced calling her a diva and difficult to work with.

amother

Navy

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 4:19 pm

amother OP wrote:

Especially now after an old interview with Armie Hammer surfaced calling her a diva and difficult to work with.

I would take anything Hammer says about women with a huge dose of salt. He's been accused of abuse by many and likely has a skewed view of what a woman ought to be.

amother

↑ Myrtle ↓

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 4:31 pm

amother Dustypink wrote:

Not to mention Blake’s husband is a billionaire. They are powerful people. If anything Justin is the underdog.

He’s not actually a billionaire

But yeah overall Justin is worth a fraction of Blake and Ryan

amother

Clover

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 5:11 pm

Idk sorry but im wayy more team justin.

And yes the fact that she is mean doesnt mean she couldn't be abused but it does make sense that she would attempt to tear down and defame someone she doesnt like.
Unfortunately being a mother and wife does NOT make someone a normal grounded person. Seriously ladies none of u know a crazy narcissistic wife/mother???

amother

Mocha ↓

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 5:23 pm

I don't believe either of them. But I believe Kjersti Flaa, and Nikki Liebermann that Blake is playing really dirty right now.

amother

↑ Mocha

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 5:27 pm

amother Stone wrote:

Excuse me? Why should anyone have to give up her job to avoid zxual harassment? Let the harasser lose their job.

Look, I don't know anything about this situation. When I wrote my first comment here, I didn't even realise this involved zxual abuse. I was just responding to a poster who mentioned Armie Hammer, another abuser and likely zxual assaulter so that's what I responded to.

If there's a livestream with Emily Baker, like there was with Amber Heard, I'll probably watch it.

Emily talked about it for 7 hours today!

amother

↑ Myrtle

Wed, Jan 08 2025, 5:42 pm

amother Clover wrote:

I actually think she believes the accusations. I believe she really did feel uncomfortable. But that doesn’t mean he’s guilty of harassment

Like I said, I think it started with the weight issue. She got extremely offended and made a huge deal over it. I think everything past that point was just a series of unfortunate events that got blown out of proportion. I think she is just being a “Karen”

I can actually give an example:

A while back I took my younger sister and some of her friends to a concert. We had pit tickets where you just stand. We got there super early and we’re the first by the stage. Right before the main act came out, there was a group of guys who pushed into to us to try to get up to the stage. It was too crowded and we started to complain. The guys were tipsy, loud and obnoxious. I got in their face a bit, along with the other people who got there early for the prime spots, and they backed down. The “leader” of their group actually started apologizing, and in an effort to make amends he offered us a beer and put his arm around one of my sisters friends. Now, this girl is 16. She goes to a regular school, doesn’t talk to boys and is shomer. She felt super uncomfortable, having this drunk 30 something gross guy touching her. I told him not so nicely to get off, and then I told the security guard standing near us that this group of men were bothering us. I asked if she could just ask them to move to another spot, since we were there first. The women in another group next to us got involved too and started making the whole thing seem like a big deal, and the security guard was a feminist type. She kicked out the whole group of guys from the concert.
Now, obviously what the guy did was uncomfortable and mildly inappropriate- though he had no idea this girl was underage or Jewish ie the nuances of not touching men. He was sincerely trying to apologize and downplay the situation. Yes, It wasn’t a club, and in todays climate it seems logical to not touch strangers. But it was really not a big deal. It was not malicious or with bad intent. They didn’t deserve to be removed or have their night ruined, I just wanted them like 10 ft over. And even though none of the facts about what happened had changed, it was over dramatized and looked at through a different perspective that made it look horrible

So I think it’s most likely that Blake did genuinely feel uncomfortable because she did not like Justin, and everything he did felt like a violation to her. But that doesn’t mean he actually did anything wrong, or violated her. She is being over dramatic and trying to ruin his life over it. And the cast are all jumping to her defense because of course women’s rights and believing victims no matter what