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Rebbe chanuka gift- OOT, high tuition



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amother
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Post Wed, Dec 18 2024, 2:04 pm
Hi-

What would be appropriate to give a rebbe for Chanukkah in this situation? I think money would be awkward. What gift might be appreciated?
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amother
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Post Wed, Dec 18 2024, 2:41 pm
why is it awkward? We pay full tuition and I'm giving $100. My son's rebbi is amazing and I am so grateful!
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amother
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Post Wed, Dec 18 2024, 2:57 pm
amother Outerspace wrote:
why is it awkward? We pay full tuition and I'm giving $100. My son's rebbi is amazing and I am so grateful!


I'm cannot give $100 to all of my kid's teachers. So, it feels a little silly to give someone $20. I didn't go to frum school growing up and that would have been seen as really tacky. I'm actually just looking for appreciation gift ideas....
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lamplighter




 
 
    
 

Post Wed, Dec 18 2024, 2:58 pm
A bottle of wine?
Gift card to a seforim store?
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monseymom161




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Dec 19 2024, 11:37 am
Cash is best, even a small amount.
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mommyhood




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Dec 19 2024, 12:40 pm
Not tacky at all to give a Rebbi $20. The culture is different in frum schools. If you really don’t want to do cash, go to the local seforim store buy one of the new Rebbe/Rosh Yeshiva biography or some other new book or Sefer and give it with a gift receipt.
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artist770




 
 
    
 

Post Thu, Dec 19 2024, 12:43 pm
Cash is the norm for chanukah gelt. Anything else would stand out
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amother
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Post Yesterday at 10:02 am
We are OOT as well and I have given anywhere between $18-$50 to Rebbeim for Chanukah, depending on the grade, how much we can afford that year and other factors. It's really fine to give what you can afford, especially if you include a nice personalized note expressing your hakaras hatov. We do give more at the end of the year, but for Chanukah totally fine to give less.
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