Do you follow Squirmy and Grubbs on YouTube? Thoughts?

amother

Clear

Yesterday at 2:00 pm

flowerpower wrote:

Something is definitely wrong with her. Why in heavens name would a pretty skinny attractive girl marry a very disabled 2 ft 45 pound guy?!

Well then, thats the point of the videos really, to show the world that two people can look like they dont belong together but they find something/s to bring them together.
What a terrible thing to say.

amother

Moonstone

Yesterday at 2:04 pm

My thoughts- love is love.
I don’t like all of their videos but it seems to me like they have a loving relationship.

↑ flowerpower ↓

Yesterday at 2:17 pm

amother Cinnamon wrote:

because she likes him?

Love is not always enough. There needs to be more to a marriage than just love. He has no sperm count- another public announcement of theirs.

↑ flowerpower ↓

Yesterday at 2:18 pm

amother Clear wrote:

Many people think there's an ulterior motive here. They get many many comments a day questioning their relationship.

amother

Daphne

Yesterday at 2:23 pm

flowerpower wrote:

Many people think there's an ulterior motive here. They get many many comments a day questioning their relationship.

What would the ulterior motive be

amother

Amber

Yesterday at 2:45 pm

I think it’s a beautiful relationship, and a good reminder to me to look beyond externals, like Judaism CONSTANTLY reiterates- our most significant part is our soul.

Genius ↓

Yesterday at 2:47 pm

amother Daphne wrote:

What would the ulterior motive be

Attention. I know most of YouTube is staged, but the vibe I get from her is very inauthentic.

amother

Banana

Yesterday at 2:48 pm

My opinion is that she has a fẽtĩsh for disabled men. In the wedding video she says that SHE reached out to him after seeing him online and they fell in love.

amother

Begonia

Yesterday at 2:52 pm

amother Banana wrote:

My opinion is that she has a fẽtĩsh for disabled men. In the wedding video she says that SHE reached out to him after seeing him online and they fell in love.

I agree. I thought the same. She actively sought him out. She saw his videos and thought "that's boyfriend material right there."

amother

Cantaloupe

Yesterday at 4:09 pm

Alot of the couples on YouTube seem fake. Except for a few most are pretty obviously only together for the videos. Like why can't you get your wife flowers or presents or whatever without the whole world seeing you do it?
Some but very few seem to have private lives as well but most are like so fake. Really your wife is scared and the first thing that comes to mind is let me get a video of me hugging her?

amother

↑ Ruby

Yesterday at 4:17 pm

flowerpower wrote:

Love is not always enough. There needs to be more to a marriage than just love. He has no sperm count- another public announcement of theirs.

amother

cornflower

Yesterday at 4:21 pm

Even if they are fake/not tznius/she has a f*tish/he is actually a puppet and it's an elaborate ventriloquy act, who cares?

amother

Oldlace

Yesterday at 4:25 pm

I have a weird interest in them. I learned about them when I was in grad school (speech) and we analyzed some of his videos. I guess its morbid curiosity because honestly, I don't know how their intimate life works, I never saw interabled couples where one spouse is so severe. I think hannah is pretty. I like shanes humor

↑ flowerpower

Yesterday at 4:47 pm

amother Ruby wrote:

You can slap your forehead all you want, but in all seriousness- why would someone marry someone knowing hell rely on her for everything. Something is definitely odd there. If someone is married to a healthy spouse and becomes disabled after being married is one thing (for better or for worse) but to go into a marriage like this….

amother

Lime

Yesterday at 5:29 pm

I've watched a few of their videos in the past. I think it's a totally inauthentic attention grab by her. "Falling in Love" does not make a young healthy person seek out a severely disabled man with no real independence or future in order to make videos with him and become his caretaker and get clicks. This isn't a minor disability and I don't buy that at all. Bad vibes all around.

amother

Papaya

Yesterday at 6:46 pm

amother Lightgreen wrote:

There's another interabled couple on YouTube, cole and charisma and I find their content to be much more wholesome and honest.

I find Cole and charisma to be entertaining, they have a great chemistry, are generally upbeat and fun to watch. Their relationship seems legit. On the other hand, I always felt something was a tad “off” with squirmy and Grubbs.

oohlala

Yesterday at 7:40 pm

I find it disturbing and extremely difficult to understand.

amother

Freesia ↓

Yesterday at 7:53 pm

Look up Loren Schauers (he’s also on Facebook). He was a young vibrant man who was in a terrible construction vehicle accident and lost half his body. Literally. He’s just head, torso and arms now. His girlfriend at the time stuck with him and ended up marrying him. They seem devoted to each other.

amother

↑ Lemonchiffon

Yesterday at 7:55 pm

amother Begonia wrote:

I agree. I thought the same. She actively sought him out. She saw his videos and thought "that's boyfriend material right there."

Reminds me of the spouses on "My 600lb life" who are basically caretakers & feeders.

amother

Periwinkle

Yesterday at 7:55 pm

amother Papaya wrote:

there is way more equality in the relationship so its by definition more authentic.

he cant walk but seems normal otherwise.