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amother
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 Yesterday at 6:08 pm
How low can people behave
Like we hearing about hosting events, renovations, donating money etc.
Basically publicly spending and spending in advertising but not paying your bills to a frum small business. I wonder how many others they’ve hurt.😞
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amother
RosePink
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Yesterday at 6:25 pm
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Yes, I've dealt with that too. I don't understand the mentality.
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amother
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Yesterday at 6:28 pm
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Or publicly pledging impressive donations and money for Aliyahs and never paying up.
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amother
Red
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Yesterday at 7:20 pm
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Or collecting money from friends and the wife is in the newest style clothing in shul
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amother
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Yesterday at 7:33 pm
| amother Red wrote: | | Or collecting money from friends and the wife is in the newest style clothing in shul |
Maybe the wife doesn't know about the collecting. Happens.
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amother
Oak
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Yesterday at 7:36 pm
| amother Maroon wrote: | | Maybe the wife doesn't know about the collecting. Happens. |
Wouldn't that be step one to fix the situation?
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amother
Raspberry
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Yesterday at 7:41 pm
I was recently treated to a vacation in Florida by a family member who needed company for a trip. I didn't pay a penny for it.
At the same time I'm in a very tight financial situation and owe tuition and in the grocery etc.
I felt like I needed to keep the trip a secret bc I would be judged.
You never know what's going on by someone and it's always a good midda to judge favorably.
(BTW the trip was literally like oxygen for me going through such a hard time bh)
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amother
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Yesterday at 7:42 pm
| amother Oak wrote: | | Wouldn't that be step one to fix the situation? |
In an ideal world, yes.
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amother
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Yesterday at 7:43 pm
| amother OP wrote: | How low can people behave
Like we hearing about hosting events, renovations, donating money etc.
Basically publicly spending and spending in advertising but not paying your bills to a frum small business. I wonder how many others they’ve hurt.😞 |
Business & personal finances are separate.
Unfortunately, that's how it is.
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amother
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Today at 4:28 am
| amother White wrote: | Business & personal finances are separate.
Unfortunately, that's how it is. |
I think OP is not talking about business expenses, but personal money owed to a small business.
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amother
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Today at 7:25 am
| amother Maroon wrote: | | Maybe the wife doesn't know about the collecting. Happens. |
Or she's an expert seamstress and sews her own, or an amazing shopper and finds metziahs, or has a friend in retail who sells her stuff at cost...
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