I can’t call you mommy- Ami serial

amother

↑ RosePink ↓

Yesterday at 8:52 am

amother Whitewash wrote:

I think the young couple was divorced?

That's why simis parents are so involved.

It almost seems like it but it wasn't mentioned.

amother

↑ DarkKhaki ↓

Yesterday at 8:53 am

amother Aster wrote:

How would you know this...? I thought the implication in the story is that it's her son in law's mother and they're going to seek brachos for the couple together.

Cause she mentions real names.

amother

↑ Ghostwhite ↓

Yesterday at 9:05 am

amother DarkKhaki wrote:

Cause she mentions real names.

Dark khaki, if you know her personally, would you dare to ask her if she doesn't mind that people are dissecting her story? Or what her point was in publicizing it?
I'm so tempted to ask her.
Because I feel so bad that this is whats going on.
Such a painful life.. it's almost unbearable!
I'm picturing her and her eidel daughter..

amother

↑ OP

Yesterday at 9:27 am

amother Steelblue wrote:

It’s a true story, right ?
It’s not fiction.
She mentions names throughout

Yes. True.

amother

↑ Aqua

Yesterday at 9:32 am

I think it is extremely odd, even if its told from the mothers point of view, that the husband is not mentioned. This is a story of a major life crisis, you would think he would be at her side.

amother

↑ NeonOrange

Yesterday at 9:33 am

amother Aqua wrote:

I think it is extremely odd, even if its told from the mothers point of view, that the husband is not mentioned. This is a story of a major life crisis, you would think he would be at her side.

I would assume that he asked not to be mentioned.

amother

↑ Aster ↓

Yesterday at 9:33 am

amother DarkKhaki wrote:

Cause she mentions real names.

Not for the "machatinste" she goes to Israel with. It doesn't mention a name and I think the implication for anyone reading it is that it's the son in law's mother.

amother

↑ Ghostwhite ↓

Yesterday at 9:35 am

amother Aqua wrote:

I think it is extremely odd, even if its told from the mothers point of view, that the husband is not mentioned. This is a story of a major life crisis, you would think he would be at her side.

You have no idea what else was going on behind the scenes? How can you be judgemental?
And for that matter, Chanie, her children, her mechitunim might all be reading this thread. Can we be more careful? Does she have to have more hurt inflicted on her? Hasn't she had enough??

amother

↑ DarkGreen ↓

Yesterday at 9:37 am

If mentions which cousins stayed with her when the mother went to EY, and how she missed her son so much when she was in the hospital.. I keep wondering if she’s married or not. It’s ok yo mention the husband without a name but to not mention him seems odd, especially bec every other family member is mentioned

amother

↑ Ghostwhite ↓

Yesterday at 9:39 am

amother DarkGreen wrote:

I didn't read that installment yet.
Are you referring to her own husband? Simis father?
If you are... he was niftar 2 summers ago.. let let neshumes have peace.
He was a tzaddik!

amother

↑ RosePink ↓

Yesterday at 9:44 am

amother Ghostwhite wrote:

no one is being judgemental. They went public with the story and suddenly the husband is not in the story. He was part of it until she got sick. It's normal to question why he's not in it now. It's just confusing.

amother

Heather

Yesterday at 9:46 am

amother RosePink wrote:

I can't for the life of me understand why regular names were used in this story.

amother

↑ DarkGreen

Yesterday at 9:52 am

amother Ghostwhite wrote:

I didn't read that installment yet.
Are you referring to her own husband? Simis father?
If you are... he was niftar 2 summers ago.. let let neshumes have peace.
He was a tzaddik!

Simi‘s husband

amother

↑ Peony ↓

Yesterday at 10:18 am

amother DarkGreen wrote:

Simi‘s husband

Simi never divorced. Stop the gossip. I remember in her final days when Simi lost the ability to talk they would nebach communicate by text.

My assumption is he gave approval to this serial by omitting his part of the saga.

It seems to me this serial is therapeutic healing for Chany. So please let's be nice.

amother

↑ Indigo

Yesterday at 11:19 am

amother Peony wrote:

I reported one comment but I hope moderators delete all the ones that made assumptions

amother

↑ Mustard ↓

Yesterday at 11:20 am

I got to vaguely know the family while they were spending her final days in Freidwald hospice. Simis husband was definitely there all along spending the final days with her. I'm assuming as others speculate that he doesn't want to be written about.

amother

↑ Mustard

Yesterday at 11:22 am

To the one who wrote they divorced.. I can't understand how you could post that publicly without verifying??? Why would you do that?!?

amother

↑ Peony ↓

Yesterday at 1:16 pm

amother Aster wrote:

Not for the "machatinste" she goes to Israel with. It doesn't mention a name and I think the implication for anyone reading it is that it's the son in law's mother.

But she mentioned that at the pesach hamareh in meron she was crying and davening hysterically, so her mechitenesta was explaining to other mispallelim that Chany's daughter is very sick. She didn't say "my dil is sick", implying it was a different mechitenesta.

amother

↑ DarkKhaki

Yesterday at 1:21 pm

amother Peony wrote:

And she does say a name. I reread it now.

amother

↑ Peony ↓

Yesterday at 1:24 pm

amother DarkKhaki wrote:

And she does say a name. I reread it now.

Correct, Diamond. Unless it's an alias.